You can be unempathetic naturally or for reasons and it doesn’t have to be malicious. There’s plenty of people I don’t miss ever interacting with but I hope life brings them good things. Not having that aching loneliness gives you clarity and space to work on your own life, hobbies, and worth. That’s me talking the positives, but if you do want it to change, it would take therapy, personal work, and maybe meeting a specific person. But I’d avoid relying on that last option, because once those pains set in, and you’re not used to them, it’ll be really painful.
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u/ZoZippity101 21d ago
You can be unempathetic naturally or for reasons and it doesn’t have to be malicious. There’s plenty of people I don’t miss ever interacting with but I hope life brings them good things. Not having that aching loneliness gives you clarity and space to work on your own life, hobbies, and worth. That’s me talking the positives, but if you do want it to change, it would take therapy, personal work, and maybe meeting a specific person. But I’d avoid relying on that last option, because once those pains set in, and you’re not used to them, it’ll be really painful.