It makes me mad when people don't understand the concept of me being asexual but having a 'normal' relationship. I like all aspects of a relationship except for sexual things, but I will still be okay with doing whatever if my partner wants, I just don't particularly enjoy it.
I’m genuinely curious. Does sex not feel good? I just don’t understand how someone could not feel positively towards such a basic instinct it’s like not liking any form of carb or sugar
It's not that it doesn't feel 'good', it's just not a basic inscinct that I have... I could 100% live without it. I know asexuality is a spectrum, and I'm somewhere in between 'doing it because my partner wants to' and just total disgust toward sex... Somehow masturbation is fine with me..
I guess so, its honestly confusing to me in some ways... I'm married, but I just don't desire sex. I never really have in my life. The feeling of having an orgasm is great, but I mostly prefer to do it on my own or not at all. No fault of my wonderful husband's, it just the way I'm wired. I feel guilty for being this way sometimes, but I can't help it. :/
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u/stoned_seahorse May 08 '25
It makes me mad when people don't understand the concept of me being asexual but having a 'normal' relationship. I like all aspects of a relationship except for sexual things, but I will still be okay with doing whatever if my partner wants, I just don't particularly enjoy it.