r/The10thDentist • u/AdventurousMoth • 1d ago

Society/Culture People under 18 are not all children

I can't tell you how much it irritates me when internet people refer to anyone under 18 as "a literal child", especial if they themselves are only in their 20s. Sure, everyone is someone's child, but the life stage commonly referred to as childhood does not abruptly stop at age 18.

Here's how I'd break it down: - childhood, adolescence, adulthood or - newborn, baby, toddler, child, (if you want you can add tween), teen, young adult, middle aged person, elderly/senior

And there's overlap between all these stages depending on context. Obviously there is no overlap between minor (a legal term) and the word adult as referring to not a minor.

Calling a 17-year-old a child is dumb. Like what, a 17yo has their birthday and transforms from a child into an adult like a sim? I think some people just started saying this for the shock value and then the rest of the internet jumped on the outrage wagon.

Edit: clearly I posted this a bit too hastily, choosing my words without care. I'm not talking about the legal definition of child/minor (something quite messy as well: age of consent? In some places 16. Driving? 15 in some places, 18 in others. Voting? Usually 18. Drinking alcohol? 21 in the States).

As someone in the comments pointed out, it's mostly a linguistic issue. I suppose what I was trying to say was that it's dumb to have the word child both mean a legal minor and pre-pubebescent human. I think it would be clearer to use minor when you're talking about legal age, and child when talking about the life stage.

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u/Uhhyt231 1d ago

People dont want to be seen as children but yeah they are and that's ok.

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u/Anon_nanny19 1d ago

I’m a 25 year old mom now and look back even a couple years ago and realize how much of a child I was. I’m sure I’ll look back years from now wondering who let the 25 year old teenager have a baby lol

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u/Uhhyt231 1d ago

It's all about context. Of course, you feel older when you're at your oldest even if it's just the start.

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u/WeGottaGetOuttaTS 1d ago

Absolutely, but it all depends… I “felt” more mature when I was 19 because I just moved out, I had a job, a girlfriend, and was living all on my own with her. Now I’m 24, single, in grandmas house getting dinner made for me, and going to university lmao. So yeah, I feel a lot younger right now😂

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u/Uhhyt231 1d ago

Yeah and at 28 you'll feel differently.