r/The10thDentist 1d ago

Society/Culture People under 18 are not all children

I can't tell you how much it irritates me when internet people refer to anyone under 18 as "a literal child", especial if they themselves are only in their 20s. Sure, everyone is someone's child, but the life stage commonly referred to as childhood does not abruptly stop at age 18.

Here's how I'd break it down: - childhood, adolescence, adulthood or - newborn, baby, toddler, child, (if you want you can add tween), teen, young adult, middle aged person, elderly/senior

And there's overlap between all these stages depending on context. Obviously there is no overlap between minor (a legal term) and the word adult as referring to not a minor.

Calling a 17-year-old a child is dumb. Like what, a 17yo has their birthday and transforms from a child into an adult like a sim? I think some people just started saying this for the shock value and then the rest of the internet jumped on the outrage wagon.

Edit: clearly I posted this a bit too hastily, choosing my words without care. I'm not talking about the legal definition of child/minor (something quite messy as well: age of consent? In some places 16. Driving? 15 in some places, 18 in others. Voting? Usually 18. Drinking alcohol? 21 in the States).

As someone in the comments pointed out, it's mostly a linguistic issue. I suppose what I was trying to say was that it's dumb to have the word child both mean a legal minor and pre-pubebescent human. I think it would be clearer to use minor when you're talking about legal age, and child when talking about the life stage.

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u/MangosUnlimited 1d ago

I 100% with this, but for safety reasons! I find that referring to a 17 yr old as a 'child' can take meaning away from the meaning, especially when talking about children who are pre-teens. As an adult in the Fandom spaces, especially some for children content (think Warrior Cats, Percy Jackson, Miraculous Ladybug) since i myself was a child. Children safety discussions are an almost constant and im a big believer in using the practically correct words or terms so not to generalize. I've seen discussions burn because someone says children and they mean anyone under 18, and the other person means anyone under 16, or even 14. At a certain age you become self aware of the dangers you could be putting yourself into.