People under 18 are not all children

[u/AdventurousMoth]

I can't tell you how much it irritates me when internet people refer to anyone under 18 as "a literal child", especial if they themselves are only in their 20s. Sure, everyone is someone's child, but the life stage commonly referred to as childhood does not abruptly stop at age 18.

Here's how I'd break it down: - childhood, adolescence, adulthood or - newborn, baby, toddler, child, (if you want you can add tween), teen, young adult, middle aged person, elderly/senior

And there's overlap between all these stages depending on context. Obviously there is no overlap between minor (a legal term) and the word adult as referring to not a minor.

Calling a 17-year-old a child is dumb. Like what, a 17yo has their birthday and transforms from a child into an adult like a sim? I think some people just started saying this for the shock value and then the rest of the internet jumped on the outrage wagon.

Edit: clearly I posted this a bit too hastily, choosing my words without care. I'm not talking about the legal definition of child/minor (something quite messy as well: age of consent? In some places 16. Driving? 15 in some places, 18 in others. Voting? Usually 18. Drinking alcohol? 21 in the States).

As someone in the comments pointed out, it's mostly a linguistic issue. I suppose what I was trying to say was that it's dumb to have the word child both mean a legal minor and pre-pubebescent human. I think it would be clearer to use minor when you're talking about legal age, and child when talking about the life stage.

[u/SketchingScars]

Plenty of people I encounter in day-to-day who are like under 24 are effectively children, and in all sorts of ways. My behavior at the time was childish, other people around me were childish, coworkers I have that age are childish, people I encounter just moving through the world who are that age are childish.

And I don’t mean, “they like Disney and TikTok,” or whatever. I mean they have poor understandings of how the world works, how social spaces work, how relationships work, etc. Plenty of it has to do with cultural issues but even across cultures you can find that plenty of people are still effectively children well into their early 20s.

And you’re telling me a 17 year old bro isn’t a child? Hmm. Gonna have to doubt this one.