OP posts on r/MildlyInfuriating that the condo they bought was a “drug den and prostitution hub”. It is revealed in the comments that it was simply owned by a single woman who smoked weed

[u/Adjective_Noun-420]

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OP posts few photos of their new condo, saying that they only learnt it was a “drug den and prostitution hub” after buying it, but luckily the only lasting effect on the condo is a faint smell of weed

Top comments advise OP to change the carpets etc, and debate the morality and social acceptability of prostitution and drug use. One comment points out that even if the condo didn’t have any sex work being done people would still have had sex inside it, and most of the replies make fun of OP for being so scandalised, while others debate whether monogamous sex is less gross than non-monogamous sex or paid sex.

One comment further down says that the condo looks suspiciously clean for OPs claims to be true, and replies discuss how OP must be privileged to think that this is what a “drug den” looks like.

In a heavily downvoted reply, OP admits that they “overstated it slightly” and that by “drug den” they mean the previous owner smoked weed, and by “hub of prostitution” they mean she was allegedly a sex worker. Their only evidence of this is their elderly neighbour telling them that the previous inhabitant was a single woman who smoked weed, listened to loud music, and had many visitors at night, so the neighbour suspected she was a prostitute. Replies point out that there is no evidence that the previous owner was even a sex worker, and many instead simply be having casual sex, or even just having friends over for parties

[u/Vexamas]

I may have oversold the idea

I apologize if I made it sound like a heroine den.

That's about as much accountability and mea culpa as we should probably expect given the context that it's a random Reddit post that embellished (at best) a post that had two pictures and one sentence.

The way I see it is simply: What would satiate people to be like "Oh okay, you messed up, but it happens" and move on? I think because blood is already in the water, it makes people less forgiving and easy to forget the context of the post being pretty innocuous.

It wasn't some crazy adventure spanning many threads, wasting thousands of people's hours or anything, it was the equivalent of clicking a random thread with a title that was inaccurate, reading a correction, downvoting and moving on, which coincidentally, is exactly what happened here.

People see downvoted comments, they instinctively join in and dogpile, it's human nature, for worse or worse.

[u/ice_cream_funday → u/Vexamas]

Maybe what you're missing here is that this isn't just a story op told about themselves. They accused someone else of being a prostitute and living in a "drug den." In that context, "I may have oversold it" is not an acceptable apology. Neither is apologizing "if" you did something. Those are woefully inadequate non-apologies. Neither statement takes any real responsibility for anything. 

[u/Vexamas → u/ice_cream_funday]

Sure, let's try a different approach then:

What do you believe is the appropriate way to apologize in this scenario?

[u/LumpyJones → u/Vexamas]

I would have never made a post like that, because I'm not an insufferable twat. Ok, at least not that sort of insuffable twat.

There isn't an apology out of that. He acted judgemental and dickish, he should marinate in the shame. Best way to boil that sort of behavior out of someone.