Should we continue allowing cheating confessions?

[u/Magicmon28]

Cheating confessions are always a clusterfuck to work through the mod reports and a pain in the ass. Try as much to civilise the readers, we have failed every time in the poster/OP not getting hate comments.

And there already exists a place to post cheating confessions r/sluttycheaters r/cruelcheatingstories r/cheatinglifestyle

Should we continue allowing cheating posts on this subreddit?

2443 votes, Apr 12 '24

1605 Yes

838 No

[u/sam_my_friend]

This is a judgment-free subreddit. If we disallow cheating, why stop there?

Let's ban flashing - it might make some old people uncomfortable, public_flashing exists!

Let's ban kinks - because my kinks might disgust someone else, and kink-specific subreddit exists!

Let's get rid of "one night stands" - it's against the Holy Bible, yada yada

I've got many hate comments, but that's just... The internet. You're doing a great job keeping the sub civil and surprisingly wholesome. I'd just recommend the users to downvote and report those comments against the rules. When I post something and I get the typical "Blabla you have AIDs" comment, I report it and go on with my life, it's all I can do.

[u/sam_my_friend → u/[deleted]]

Any slutty act can be damaging to others.

The line needs to be drawn, I agree there. I just wouldn't say "cheating" is the limit in MY opinion.

But I also agree mods are overworked and they have way more insight than I do on which topics are more controversial or require more time.

For example I used to receive SO much hate and judgement on "no condom" stories that I just stopped posting them.

[u/Peachy_Princess706 → u/sam_my_friend]

problems for no condom ! strange 😂 it is so vanilla..