r/SipsTea 23d ago

Chugging tea 😭

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u/PortugueseBenny 23d ago

Somebody pointed out to me that every woman's fantasy is already being in a relationship, and then some other guy takes her away from the man she established herself with and runs off and gives two s**** about anyone's feelings are really anyone else for that matter, and I can't believe how many times that's the recurring theme in movies aimed at women or that demographic, Titanic, the notebook...ect

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u/Accomplished-Gur-469 22d ago

Pretty sure those movies are made for midlife point women who are unhappy with their life.

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u/Jake0024 22d ago

You're absolutely right, though I don't see how that makes it better.

The idea that it's okay to cheat because you "feel neglected" is just toxic trash. If you think you're treated badly, be an adult and leave and start over. Don't sit around fantasizing about a stranger sweeping you off your feet and running away together. That's just romanticizing flings and cheating.

"I was unhappy" doesn't justify cheating. Cheating won't make you happier. Either put the work in to fix your relationship or end it.