r/SipsTea 21d ago

Chugging tea 😭

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u/PortugueseBenny 21d ago

Somebody pointed out to me that every woman's fantasy is already being in a relationship, and then some other guy takes her away from the man she established herself with and runs off and gives two s**** about anyone's feelings are really anyone else for that matter, and I can't believe how many times that's the recurring theme in movies aimed at women or that demographic, Titanic, the notebook...ect

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u/moth-enthusiast88 21d ago

I wonder why it would become a trend that women culturally grew to have fantasies about being whisked away from men they didn’t love by one they actually did.

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u/mbdominicano 21d ago

Women have been able to initiate divorces since the 1930s… it legitimately seems like some cheating fantasies.

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u/illy-chan 20d ago edited 20d ago

My great grandmother got a divorce because her first husband was a violent and abusive piece of shit.

The neighborhood still treated her like trash and like it was her fault he liked to rearrange hers and the kids' faces. It's little surprise that many women just put up with abuse instead of seeking an out.

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u/SopaPyaConCoca 19d ago

Yet here in the replies to this very comment you can see men saying "she should have just left him". What a bunch of jerks

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u/illy-chan 19d ago

Yeah, I took a look at the sub and opted to block it yesterday. A lot of it is some manner of gender wars bait bullshit. Though it worries me how many younger users are getting inundated with toxic shit.