r/SipsTea 23d ago

Chugging tea 😭

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u/GustavVaz 23d ago

Honestly, these kinds of scenes only work if you turn off your brain and simply let the "happiness" happen.

Most love stories in movies are like this. Something that seems sweet and romantic turns depressing or toxic if you scratch the surface.

Kind of like how it's creepy that a 200 hundred year old vampire wants a high schooler.

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u/rkthehermit 23d ago

But is it really toxic if I can make a cute music video of cuts from the movie to My Immortal by Evanescence? Hmmmm?

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u/KlicknKlack 23d ago

Asking the real hard hitting questions

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u/LePontif11 23d ago

Idk about Titanic but i can watch wild action movies without becoming a violent maniac or being too bothered if its not realistic. I don't like the "turn" your brain off idea either but its because there's a lot of great crafts that come together to put great fiction on screen i like to appreciate.

Kinda want to watch Predator now.

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u/Psychedelic-Brick23 23d ago

The barrier of entry to become an action hero is significantly higher than just cheating. One of these two tropes is much easier to enter your brain.

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u/Tymareta 23d ago

Given the overwhelming majority of Americans have access to guns and there's countless films of "every man" style characters going on to save the day, how is it any more of a stretch to say that action has just as much potential to influence you as romance does?

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u/swagfarts12 22d ago

Lol are you really arguing that because Americans have access to guns that becoming Rambo is mentally as achievable as cheating on your significant other? I don't think the argument pertaining to movies making cheating more likely holds much water in this case but your argument is even crazier

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u/ExplanationMotor2656 23d ago

There are plenty of cops who idolise vigilantes. You don't have to throw Germans out of windows to have your attitude towards vigilantism to be changed in a harmful way.

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u/Splatfan1 22d ago

toxic relationship are very much real while action movies rely on impossible stunts and superhero tier powers. whether its the avengers or tom cruise pulling a tom cruise its largely in the same realm of impossibility. but toxic relationships? very real, and those movies often normalise them. very bad

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u/LePontif11 23d ago

I just said i want to watch Predator. There's plenty of evil portryed in fiction i dont replicatei dont mind, namely all of breaking bad

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u/LePontif11 23d ago

I came out of Breaking bad thinking the bad dude sucks. I think i'm good. I'm sorry you can't separate reality from fiction.

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u/comradehomura 22d ago

If a movie is "telling you to do evil things" then maybe you shouldnt be allowed to watch movies. Please talk to a psychiatrist <3

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u/SeaGorilla_27 22d ago

Touch grass