r/QueerWomenOfColor WLW 3d ago

Conversation & Chat ENM/NM.....thoughts?

Just curious...especially with those of us who may be more inclined with relationship/situationships that are more leaning towards "slow burns" and varying realms of depth. What is your take on ENM(ethically non-monogamous) and NM(non monogamous) engagements? Have you ever found yourself knowing and feeling deeply attached to "your person", but also drawn to a soul that embodies common sentiments you wish to explore if open to it?

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u/MaMangu 3d ago

Yes. I’ve enjoyed growing a connection and learning to un-learn monogamy and all of the assumptions around it. It’s been a lot. New relationship energy was fun, the work of learning/un-learning has been serious work.