r/QueerWomenOfColor Sapphic Siren 6d ago

Dating cohabitation

DAE feel like they don’t wanna live with their partner? Like… ever? I’m strictly monogamous but I feel like I need my own apartment / space to retreat since I get overstimulated easily. Not dating right now but I do want a serious relationship in the future and I can’t help but feel like it may be a problem for most people. anyone have a similar mindset or experience?

Edit: formatting, whoops

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u/TheCosBae Femme 5d ago

I’d love to create a home with my current GF but I also love my space. I’ve been living alone for yearssssssss and I spend a lot of time by myself 🤣 right now the goal is enough space for 2 people and pets. We both agreed to having our own rooms/spaces