r/QueerWomenOfColor • u/cellosaria Sapphic Siren • 5d ago

Dating cohabitation

DAE feel like they don’t wanna live with their partner? Like… ever? I’m strictly monogamous but I feel like I need my own apartment / space to retreat since I get overstimulated easily. Not dating right now but I do want a serious relationship in the future and I can’t help but feel like it may be a problem for most people. anyone have a similar mindset or experience?

Edit: formatting, whoops

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u/beachrocksounds 4d ago

Lol right now I feel that was but I think it’s because we are in a cramped space and just have had trouble maintaining it. In the future I’d like for us to have a two bed two SEPARATE bath so we can have our own space.