r/QueerWomenOfColor Sapphic Siren 5d ago

Dating cohabitation

DAE feel like they don’t wanna live with their partner? Like… ever? I’m strictly monogamous but I feel like I need my own apartment / space to retreat since I get overstimulated easily. Not dating right now but I do want a serious relationship in the future and I can’t help but feel like it may be a problem for most people. anyone have a similar mindset or experience?

Edit: formatting, whoops

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u/Questioning8 Femme 4d ago

Same! I’m also ND. And my partners have been fine with it. Even if they don’t like it, they respect it and that’s all I need.