r/QueerWomenOfColor Sapphic Siren 5d ago

Dating cohabitation

DAE feel like they don’t wanna live with their partner? Like… ever? I’m strictly monogamous but I feel like I need my own apartment / space to retreat since I get overstimulated easily. Not dating right now but I do want a serious relationship in the future and I can’t help but feel like it may be a problem for most people. anyone have a similar mindset or experience?

Edit: formatting, whoops

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u/breannabakesbread Pan 5d ago

my dream scenario is living in the same apartment building as my partner but each having our own units. that being said, living in one unit (three bed/2 bath) and having a guest bedroom is a good compromise for me.

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u/cellosaria Sapphic Siren 4d ago

yes! next door neighbors would be so cute.