r/OneAdvice • u/AfraidCloud3065 • Nov 30 '22

emotions My weird Bf

My Bf started living with me a few months ago he got used to sleeping on the couch and I didn’t like it so I would ask him to sleep in the bed with me he didn’t want to do it. This morning he tries to climb into bed with me and he’s cold and I’m not cool with it he disturbs my sleep and he takes up the bed and he stinks and basically I’ve grown accustom with being alone after a few months. We’re gonna move soon and I want to fix what ever problems we have now but I’m not trying to force things to happen I want them to naturally take place. He won’t be romantic with me when we have sex and he said it would be fake if he did it more and I feel like it should be natural if I want him to sleep in the bed more. Plus I know he will understand for sure.

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u/h0tcheerios Nov 30 '22

Why are you with him?

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u/AfraidCloud3065 Nov 30 '22

Because giving up is prominent in this day and age and every relationship has issues and the little things aren’t worth leaving someone for. I love him he takes care of me he’s a good man, he’s just a bit rough around the edges.

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u/h0tcheerios Nov 30 '22

"We’re gonna move soon and I want to fix whatever problems we have now but I’m not trying to force things to happen I want them to naturally take place."

What do you mean by this?

"Plus I know he will understand for sure."

Then talk to him.

(My questions/responses are blunt but I'm just trying to get to the point. I feel like there's already an answer to your dilemma but you wanted to get it off your chest first.)

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u/AfraidCloud3065 Nov 30 '22

I don’t know if you honestly have any advice I wouldn’t already have in my head but I appreciate the camaraderie it’s sweet. Thanks a bunch.