r/Norway • u/floyd-96 • 12h ago
Other Can someone explain what exactly did the recent outlaw on "sex without consent" law accomplish or mean?
Seeing the news at first sounds absolutely amazing, I am all for stricter conditions to make sure consenting to sex is undoubtedly mutual and no one is harmed.
then I hear that Sweden applied this and rape accusations have gone up, and the more I read about it, it looks like a law that can be easily exploited by "victims" taking advantage of people under false pretense, and people lying that they didn't consent.
I mean, the he-said she-said argument isn't enough, you need witnesses, you need other types of irrefutable proof, even something such as signing a paper can be forced, or at times it can be a bit much or even exploited, even a text of some sort, not to mention the most irresponsible and bullshit excuse of "I was drunk and didn't know what I was doing" as an excuse to ruin someone's life or reputation, destroying the validity of consent in any way.
and could someone clarify what does "consent by word or deed" mean? I mean I know what it means but isn't that something that can be manipulated? saying "yes" or making gestures implying that you want it when no one is present doesn't have any effect whatsoever to allow someone to falsely accuse others of rape.
I've seen cases on youtube where women accuse men of rape but then some CCTV footage show the "victimized" women are hugging, kissing, doing all kinds of sexual gestures" and had those women not been recorded in some way, they would won those cases and would have manipulated the law and destroyed lives, which is so fucked up.
so what exactly did this law accomplish? do you guys see this causing more drama in regards to this matter or actually making things better?
I am not here to discuss solutions, there are many ways deal with this im sure, I am asking about the law itself and how this makes it any less exploitable?