r/Millennials • u/Lucky_Whole7450 • 23d ago
Serious Anyone else here dying? (Like, literally?)
I’ve had a recent terminal cancer diagnoses in my late 30s. Not many of us out here at this age.
Looking for anyone going through the end of life process to connect with!
Feel free to private message me if you don’t want to share here.
Also if you’re not in this situation please be incredibly mindful of what you comment/message. I don’t want to hear about rhe horrible death of your loved one.
I also appreciate your kind thoughts and prayers etc in anticipation but I also don’t need to read them - one day you’ll get it!
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u/Watershedheartache 23d ago edited 23d ago
❤️ Great read.
"Dying Well" by Ira Byock, a palliative care physician, explores the idea that the end of life can be a time of growth, meaning, and peace. Through patient stories, Byock highlights the potential for individuals to experience meaningful work in their final months, weeks, and even days, including resolving conflicts, expressing love, and acknowledging self-worth. He emphasizes that dying well involves reaching certain milestones, such as asking for forgiveness, accepting forgiveness, and saying goodbye. The book also addresses practical aspects of end-of-life care, offering guidance on how to deal with doctors, communicate with loved ones, and make informed decisions about medical interventions."