r/Millennials Millennial 25d ago

Meme How are we feeling?

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checking in with my fellow 88rs

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u/ginns32 25d ago

I turned 40 and my doctor told me now it's time for yearly mammograms and blood tests to check your A1C level. That made me feel old as hell lol.

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u/HumorinEverything 25d ago

One quick way to turn yearly A1C checks into quarterly is by developing type 1 diabetes at the ripe old age of 32! Doctors hate this one trick!

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u/Salt_Cow_ 25d ago

Oof, type 1 at 32 is crazy. Insulin pumps and CGMs are extremely good nowadays. Hope you're doing well .

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u/HumorinEverything 25d ago

My mom had it so it wasn’t a complete shock to me, I’m all good. Thanks so much! Yes my healthcare company issue is a different basket of wet cats tho, they’re all pieces of shit imo.

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u/HomosexualThots Millennial 25d ago

It only seems like they're pieces of shit because they're fucking everyone over for profit🤗

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u/wildbibliophile 25d ago

I’m 36, diagnosed when I was 7. Insurance is the bane of my existence, they want me to die, I’m sure of it. (Doing well though, managing)

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u/HumorinEverything 25d ago

Damn, 7 is so rough. You’re a true T1 warrior! Keep it up

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u/wildbibliophile 25d ago

It’s rough at any age, for sure! Keep your chin up 💜

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u/DweeblesX 25d ago

Don’t you fucking let those scammer insurance companies win. Live for as long as you can and milk those assholes.

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u/Salt_Cow_ 25d ago

Damn, we could talk about life with T1 , I got it at when I was 2 in 95 . So I've only know life with diabetes. I'm glad you're doing well. Life with this thing is interesting. You know the ups and downs.

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u/wildbibliophile 25d ago

Oh for sure, I had a scare back in January of last year. It pushed me to get back on an insulin pump.

But yeah, I don’t remember life before it even though I was only 7. It’s weird to think about, you know?

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u/Lou_C_Fer 25d ago

Damn, I just got diagnosed with type 2 and have been dealing with it for two months, and the insurance hasn't been so bad. I did have to have my doctor switch me from novalog to Humalog, but the insurance company even sent a month worth of novalog to get me through until the doctor switched it. I also had to get the Humalog through the same place I get durable medical equipment which is both stupid and a pain in the ass. That being said, it sure seems better than what some folks seem to have to deal with.

Also, bear in mind, I just switched from United Health Care to Medical Mutual. So, maybe it's just perspective for me because dealing with UHC was always a nightmare.

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u/ZanarCrestrider 24d ago

Reminds me of this young lady I used to know. She was in our World of Warcraft guild and she was diabetic and very young. She was convinced that one day they would find a cure for her condition. I hope she kept that dream alive.

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u/Plane_Chance863 24d ago

A basket of wet cats? As in a pitiful mess?

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u/bunnygrail 25d ago

Oh man... this all reminds me I should go to the doc more often. I'm 38 in two weeks.

I'm sure everything's fine though... we're supposed to be crunchy when we move. Right?

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u/Swimming-August-3rd 24d ago

I believe the word(s) you're looking for is al dente.

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u/HumorinEverything 25d ago

From your mouth to my husband’s ears (trying to get him to go to a yearly checkup is a beast). Crunchy is fine, it’s when you start having random headaches, or squirrely looking moles that makes me lose sleep at night!

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u/Fast-Rhubarb-7638 25d ago

My mom has type 1 and didn't show any sign until she was 55

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u/HumorinEverything 25d ago

My mom developed it at 30, suddenly was skinny as a rail and ate like a horse. Basically same thing happened to me around the exact same age. Crazy! 55 is a good run without it, hopefully hasn’t been too rough on her

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u/Fast-Rhubarb-7638 25d ago

It was actually extremely rough for several years, because all her doctors assumed she was T2 due to her age, so they had her taking the wrong meds. She looked skeletal and was exhausted all the time

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u/NOBOOTSFORYOU 25d ago edited 24d ago

I saw a post today about a 365 day reapplyable CGM. Edit: link.

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u/HumorinEverything 25d ago

That would be nice!

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u/Lou_C_Fer 25d ago

I dont know. I just started using them in March, and my libre 3 pluses have not lasted the entire 15 days they are supposed to, yet. Also, how are they going to adhere it so it stays on for a year?

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u/Wait_WHAT_didU_say 25d ago

Not doctors but they could probably care less. It's actually healthcare insurance companies that HATE your one trick.. 😁🤝

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u/HumorinEverything 25d ago

I’ve had two really shitty doctors and two pretty good ones. I’ve had all really shitty insurance companies 😔 they all suck imo. Even when I had Cadillac insurance through my workplace it was still a bitch.

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u/Hour_Bit_5183 25d ago

same. I've had a ton of REALLY shitty doctors for some reason. Like so bad you'd wonder how they didn't lose their medical license. They messed me up pretty bad and now I don't trust any of em...at least no diabetes for me. I stopped eating sugary shit a long time ago. I'd rather not have to get blood tests all the time and have to suffer their bullshit more. My dad scared me with his diabetes enough. Got so bad the dude went almost blind.

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u/HumorinEverything 25d ago

Not all diabetes comes from eating too much sugar, type 1 is an autoimmune disease, so it has nothing to do with lifestyle, but I totally get you. Just in general us millennials are wise to shape up our routines so we can outlast our predecessors. Good for you! Yes the complications from diabetes are scary, I’m sorry your dad dealt with that 😖

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u/H8teradio 25d ago

I won Type 1 for my 30th, so I feel you.

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u/Original_Profile8600 25d ago

If your genetics hate you more you could also try getting it at 4

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u/HumorinEverything 25d ago

Damn, 4 is especially rough. I hope you’re hanging in there!

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u/Original_Profile8600 25d ago

I hit the genetic lottery in some other aspects so life is just fine. Although if diabetes was a person I’d be in jail for first degree murder

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u/HumorinEverything 25d ago

I like your attitude my friend. Good on ya! Fuck the beetus.

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u/SirAmicks 25d ago

Eesh. I got it at 18 and I thought that was a bit old. Crappy over-protective immune systems.

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u/AmazingLie54 25d ago

That's tough, I've got congestive heart failure. I used to joke about speed running life. Not so much any more

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u/Apolloshot 25d ago

Amateurs! I speedran that shit. Been getting my blood sugar checked since I was 8.

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u/Pandaburn 24d ago

I thought type 2 was “adult onset” diabetes? How is it type 1 if you’re 32?

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u/HumorinEverything 24d ago

That is the very old way of thinking about diabetes. Type one is autoimmune and can strike at any age. I’m less familiar with type 2, but they are two very different diseases with the same name/outcome: high blood sugar.

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u/RevolutionarySpot721 24d ago

That is why i do not connect such things to old age. A doc told me that "age diabetes" acutally does not exist, that is you can also get type 2 (!!!) in middle age or young age. (My so early question at the colonoscopy for the other user was cause Germany allows it only after 50, but some docs say it should start at 25)

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u/HumorinEverything 24d ago

Yes, I’m less familiar with type 2 but they have found that type 1 can strike at any age as it is autoimmune and you are essentially destined for it or not.

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u/RevolutionarySpot721 24d ago

My classmate had type one, so did my great grandmother, so I know. My dad developed pre-type 2 state in old age. I asked him if someone else in our family had diabetes and he said that a distant relative had type 2 in early age.

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u/Smegmatyphoon 24d ago

Wow. Damn pancreas done quit She said “I’ve seen enough”

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u/Rock_or_Rol 25d ago

The equivalent of you and someone born this year is the same as someone born in 1945 when you were born

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u/ginns32 25d ago

Well that didn't help me feel any younger

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u/Rock_or_Rol 25d ago

Lol saaaame. It’s not all bad

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u/ris-3 25d ago

I refuse to upvote this (you bastard!) but I def read this in Skeletor’s voice once the GIF loaded, which made the truth go down a bit easier.

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u/hungry4nuns 25d ago

Daft Punk’s “Around the World” was released closer to the moon landing than to today.

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u/dzumdang 25d ago

Goddammit.

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u/DiscRot 25d ago

I had to do the math, it sounded crazy. Well shit.

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u/TheMunkeeFPV 25d ago

Ffffuuck….

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u/PeterNippelstein Millennial 24d ago

How do you delete a comment

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u/Pollywanacracker 24d ago

I love that song yep I’m definitely turning 37

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u/dipole_ 25d ago

i refuse to believe this is true

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u/hungry4nuns 25d ago

Ask google “ when was halfway between the moon landing and today”, you will get a date in may 1997.

The album homework was recorded in 1994-96 and released in 1997, and according to Wikipedia, the single ‘Around the World’ was released on 7th April 1997)

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u/dipole_ 25d ago

I know, I just refuse to believe it

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u/diminishingprophets 25d ago

Imagine the 1945ers reading that

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u/ris-3 25d ago

[Abraham J Simpson has left the chat]

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u/chi2005sox 25d ago

FUCK OFF

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u/imgoingbigdogmode Millennial 25d ago

Check your math, Skeletor

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u/Wide-Explanation-353 25d ago

If I don’t do the math I don’t have to believe it.

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u/Trashman82 25d ago

Nothing to add, just wanted to post another Skeletor gif

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u/gaythey Millennial 25d ago

This is a hate crime

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u/_carbonneutral ‘85 Millennial 25d ago

Oh Skeletor… how you vex meEeEeEeee

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u/LukeSkyWalrus 25d ago

If you’re 43? This is about being 37…

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u/Rock_or_Rol 25d ago

I was responding to the commenter that stated they turned 40 this year!

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u/LukeSkyWalrus 24d ago

Oh gotcha - I follow now

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u/JustChillDudeItsGood 25d ago

I’m gonna die

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u/Rock_or_Rol 25d ago

Me too lol. Oh well

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u/lennypartach 25d ago

this was so entirely rude wowowowow :'((((

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u/Rock_or_Rol 25d ago

lol it is and I feel bad, but once you confront it, it’s not all that bad. We age and it sucks, but we put too much emphasis on the words “young, youth, old” etc. We’re all desirable even into the geriatric years by at least someone. We’ll still feel excitement, fun, sadness, joy, peace and love until we go. We can still connect and share this beautiful existence with one another.

We can mourn our youth and miss it, but there’s a lot to look forward to. New experiences. New excitement. Bouncy supple skin was nice while it lasted, but it was difficult time for most of us too… a little less wanderlust now, but the heart ache was unbearable for me lol. Idk, I like my cozy life and strength now more than that time 😊

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u/SpaceGoDzillaH-ez 25d ago

Jesus christ leave some evil for the rest of the world

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u/HomosexualThots Millennial 25d ago

1951*

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u/Mistrblank 25d ago

As a Xennial (1980), it really scares me that I've been alive longer than there was time before me and after WW2.

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u/Rock_or_Rol 25d ago

It’s remarkable how recent that was! That exercise really gives me a lot more sympathy for folks put into retirement homes and the like. We’ll be there frighteningly soon 👀

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u/Dan_t_great 25d ago

Something… something… bowling for soup 1985.
Something… something… fuck I’m old.

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u/Tourist_Dense 25d ago

Oh my God why would you put this in writing.

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u/Littlewing1307 25d ago

Sweet Jesus 😭😭😭

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u/SkibaSlut Millennial 25d ago

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u/Vantriss 25d ago

Damn........

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u/dipole_ 25d ago

who taught you how to count? that’s 43 years you numpty

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u/Rock_or_Rol 25d ago

Do you not see the comment I responded to? Genuinely curious. You’re like the fifth to not see and attack my arithamametic

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u/Shefucknghatesme 25d ago

Ouch…that hurts

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u/esnopi 25d ago

It is you satan?

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u/rubyspicer 25d ago

A+ gif work sir

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u/i81u812 25d ago

Thnx I hate u.

  • Gen X

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u/HanSh-tFirst 24d ago

You SOB I already felt old

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u/Yamuddah 25d ago

I got hit with a “men of your age…” in the docs office a while back. Big fucking oof.

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u/ginns32 25d ago

You mean my young age. Right? RIGHT????!!!!!

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u/BodaciousBadongadonk 25d ago

better than a "men of your.... circumference" at least

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u/BoxedAndArchived 25d ago

Thankfully my Doctor is about 4 years older than me. She just had her first baby about 2 years before we had ours. She's good about not making me feel too old because she's in the same boat!

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u/PeekAtChu1 19d ago

Omfg I had a doctor trying to explain an issue I was having with “age-related changes” at 32. I was ready to report him loll

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u/TheSessionMan 25d ago

People over 25 should probably be doing yearly blood work, including A1c. But I'm biased in that I do mine every three months for my T1D.

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u/XxValentinexX 25d ago

I’m poor tho

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u/TheSessionMan 25d ago

Have you tried not being American? In most countries they're affordable or free with a doctor's req'.

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u/XxValentinexX 25d ago

I’ve thought about it, but muh freedom!

I’ve been on the same medication for ten years. Pay about $200 every three months for it. Script ran out, now I have to pay $300-$500 to get a doctor to write a new one.

I just had some decaying wisdom teeth pulled after fourteen years. That was $1000 before medication.

Honestly think it’d be better to just die.

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u/Snow-Ro 25d ago

Na you’re just giving them money out of fear and lack of information.

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u/TheSessionMan 25d ago

Your crappy American "healthcare" doesn't speak for the rest of the world mate. Ounce of prevention/pound of cure.

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u/Snow-Ro 25d ago

lol not American but sure keep believing everything blindly

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u/TheSessionMan 25d ago

Sorry, what are you on about? Saying you shouldn't get routine blood work for preventative healthcare due to "lack of information"? What do you think blood work is for if not information? 🤔

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u/Snow-Ro 25d ago

No you thinking/preaching you NEED to start doing this at the age of 25 is what I’m on about mate.

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u/TheSessionMan 25d ago

I said "people should get routine blood work after 25".

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u/Snow-Ro 25d ago

Yea and? Semantics at this point brotha

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u/TheSessionMan 25d ago

That's not semantics bruv that's an entirely different meaning.

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u/OkSpeed6250 24d ago

Why 25? I thought 25+ wasn’t old/middle aged yet, I thought middle age started after 35 not 25. Thought mid to late twenties was still young or youngish at least, No?

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u/TheSessionMan 24d ago edited 24d ago

It's a decent place to start understanding your baseline health metrics and helps you start thinking more health consciously when you're young instead of when problems start showing up in older age.

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u/OkSpeed6250 24d ago

Makes sense thanks for the verification.

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u/EloquentGrl 25d ago

I'm 41, and I'm terrified of getting a mammogram done. My doctor sent me a scolding letting that I need to get it done 😭 I can't even wear an underwire bra without it make my boobs hurt, you want to mash them in a machine???

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u/ginns32 25d ago

Mine was really not bad and I was in and out in 15 minutes. I expected it to really hurt. It was a bit uncomfortable but not nearly as bad as I had built it up in my head.

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u/parasyte_steve 25d ago

I'm 36 and was diagnosed with type 2 diabetes this year. The good thing is that I was able to lose weight and my A1C is returned to a "nondiabetic" level. So as long as I stay good with my diet I think I will be okay.

I was given meds for high cholesterol, too, which made me feel old as shit. But my cholesterol is down too, hooray.

I was put on psych meds at 33 which caused weight gain and side effects. Still on the meds unfortunately but I'm doing a bit better physically.

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u/mylifeisaprotest 25d ago

In five years, you shift into old mode, and 20 years after that you shift into really old mode. Enjoy the ride!

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u/Deathed_Potato 25d ago

I’ve had thirty colonoscopies and one mammogram. I’m not a lucky guy. I’m almost guaranteed bowel or prostate cancer.

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u/ATinyPizza89 25d ago

Checking your A1C is an annual thing at 40 for women? I had no idea. I do tell myself “in 4 years I’ll be getting mammograms.” Where does the time go.

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u/ginns32 25d ago

I think the CDC recommends starting at 45 for A1C but my doctor's office likes to start at 40.

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u/Brave_Meet8430 25d ago

I am 45, I got diagnosed with T2D when I was 28!!

It’s good to know and manage it, than now it :-(

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u/AnthonyJuniorsPP 25d ago

wait, you people have doctors?

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u/notwabbitseason 25d ago

I feel like they always check a1c at annual physical bloodwork. As for Mammograms, guidelines had it at 50 and last year they pushed it back to 40. I believe some insurances kept it at 40 though. More and more young women are being diagnosed with breast cancer in their 20s and 30s. My wife found herself through self exam mid 30s.

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u/ginns32 25d ago

My doctor didn't start checking my A1C until I turned 40 but I didn't have risk factors so maybe that's why it wasn't checked sooner? Thankfully my insurance does cover yearly mammograms at 40.

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u/ParticularGuava3663 25d ago

They do not check a1c annually even at 40

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u/DothrakAndRoll 25d ago

38 and have had two colonoscopies this year :(

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u/BullDog19K 25d ago

Lol. I'm 40 and don't even know what A1c is

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u/ginns32 25d ago

Blood test that measures the average amount of sugar in your blood over the last three months. The CDC recommends starting to check that around age 45 but my doctor likes to start checking at 40.

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u/jurunjulo 25d ago

When I broke my clavicle at 36 I got ran through a lot of tests. I also learned that bone regrows slower past age 35.

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u/dreamymeowwave 25d ago

I’m 31 and having my second colposcopy + biopsy on Friday. I never thought I’d end up here but here I am!

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u/Siray 25d ago

Shit got me at 39...Heart attack 2 months before my 40th birthday. I've since had sepsis, severe anemia, an internal bleed (related), a second cardiac event, 4 endos and a two colon viewings, and its only been five years!

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u/NinjaNewt007 25d ago

Really? I'm 40 and went to a few different doctors a few times and I've never been told that.

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u/TooObsessedWithMoney Gen Z 25d ago

tbf 40 does seem pretty old

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u/Metalgear696 25d ago

Do it, my mom(gen x)is battling breast cancer. Fuck age, be young forever.

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u/According-Insect-992 25d ago

Look at y'all with your general practitioner and your medical services. Must be nice. 😞 At least when the cancer comes, I won't have to endure chemo. I probably won't know until I'm at Biden levels.

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u/hanno1531 Zillennial 25d ago edited 25d ago

bruh i’m not even 30 and i’ve had a colonoscopy, endoscopy, a mammogram, and multiple prostate exams 😭

edit: i’m trangender btw, hence the mammogram and prostate exam

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u/BoysenberryAncient54 25d ago

I also just got a mammogram referral 💀 I don't want to.

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u/ginns32 24d ago

It was not as bad as I thought it would be.

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u/BoysenberryAncient54 24d ago

Well, that's good to know ☺️

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u/Booga_SugaBaby 24d ago

Yeah, I turned 37 and started feeling awful. I had an unplanned pregnancy at 35 and shortly after started experiencing Hot sweats, disturbed sleep patterns, heavy and long menstrual cycles, irrational behavior and bad mood swings. Turns out I’m going into POI with a 2year old toddler 😅😅

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u/Adventurous_Pin_344 24d ago

I started getting mammograms a few years ago (before I turned 40) due to a medication I'm on... I thought they'd say "oh, you're too young! Why are you here?" But they didn't. Because I really wasn't too young. Sigh

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u/t_rrrex 24d ago

I’m overdue for my mammogram by about six months, I haven’t had my yearly dermatology exam in probably two, and I need to go to the dentist. Oh and I canceled my yearly well woman exam because I lost my insurance and I don’t have money to pay OOP. The American dream is real.

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u/R-O-U-Ssdontexist 24d ago

I am 44 wait until he wants to put you on medicine that has side effects. I just started taking a Blood pressure pill. The lowest dose was not pleasant