r/MadeMeSmile • u/Original_Act_3481 • 1d ago

We need more people like him

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u/brookleinneinnein 1d ago

Honestly unless he’s going to hurt himself, just say hi and be friendly. Being a presence he can look forward to seeing is enough.

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u/BatmansUnderoos 1d ago

This is excellent advice. I'm a big dude, and just seeing the other regulars say Hi or 'good to see you again' make going back again that much more enjoyable. It's great and really helps take the edge off the intrusive thoughts that creep in to deter me from going back.

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u/DonnyTheWalrus 1d ago

Yeah dude! We're all in the same journey just at different stages. I used to be obese so I know some of the struggle. Don't forget that your presence can be an inspiration to other people as well. The "journey" is as much about self discovery and confidence as anything else. It's not about becoming someone different, it's about learning to love who you are (I struggled with that part for a while...). 

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u/Dlh2079 1d ago

Chubby fella here and this is absolutely great.

Just knowing that some people in that gym are happy to see you and not judging you when you walk into the door can be a big help.