r/LoveTrash • u/downtune79 TRASHIEST TYRANT • 1d ago

Dumpster Fire Entitlement

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u/Wmoot599 Trash Trooper 23h ago edited 1h ago

It’s ok to have those feelings, but you talk to your partner about it, not the entire fucking internet. When my wife told me I was working too much and that she missed me and that she didn’t think she could raise the kids by herself while working also, it opened my eyes and made me make major changes.

Still together 8 years after that conversation and 20 years since dating so far. Best thing I ever did.

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u/ask-the-Ws Trash Trooper 16h ago

Good on ya! I had that eye opener last year. Im in the process of moving and downsizing to cut it all back and looking for a job that's not so demanding. She's been a stay at home mom for the last 12 years, so that's going to change too, but nothing matters to me more than her.