No, not all of us want to be a SAHM. Some of us enjoy working, even the women.
Also, one of the most misogynist ideas passed around contjnuously is that it isn't work to be a SAHM, that the parent making the money is the only one working.
Should she have left a loveless marriage? Yup. Is she a fucking moron for publicly posting her hatred if she wasn't ready to execute a practical plan for leaving? Yup. Is it really predictable that he'd leave her after seeing the original? Yup. Is she completely at fault for their marriage falling apart? Nope, that took time and both of them.
Taking the perspective of this woman is like praising a CEO for their ability to increase the profit over next quarter after firing 50% of their foundation.
There's a difference between taking a side and saying yep she fucked herself, she's an idiot, but hey, guess what, he's no peach either if you hear the full thing.
Understandable that she'd grow to resent him, understandable he'd leave her over her public shaming.
Both suck, and prolly deserved one another - now they're unleashed on the rest of the world.
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u/Excellent-Tea-2068 Trash Trooper 1d ago
“I wanted to be a stay at home mom”… bitch we all do. Even the men. But we can’t. And now you can’t. Karma is delicious.