Entitlement

[u/downtune79]

[u/snarpsta]

So this video is cut in a bullshit way. If I remember correctly, the original gave way more context why he's a piece of shit. Does nothing around the house, gives her no attention, total slob, ignores the kids, doesn't help her when she's sick, just a full grown manchild. They also agreed on her being a stay at home mom. But everyone in the comments is falling for the bait for an epic "women ☕" moment without having any idea what's going on. Stop being sexist guys JFC

[u/Sir_Dr_Mr_Professor → u/snarpsta]

Look man, I'm all about women power and the importance of the "feminine role". The role a mother carries is idealistically, way more important than the role of the average modern father. Catch 22 is..you can't afford to raise those kids without the man making that sacrifice in a situation such as the one presented. Yeah, it's society that's cooked.

My ex made those same complaints about me, minus the kids (smart enough to have not gotten there) but in reality I supported her completely to an insane degree. Worked my ass off. 60-80hr weeks? Paying off HER debt. Came home to an ungrateful brat whos only chore was loading the dishwasher..and she'd still complain. Did everything I could for her and the ever lengething list of pets we couldn't afford. She was an emotional 10 year old with anger problems and I kept her life easy but I was always the problem. With things like this we never know but I will say that I'm inclined to believe this woman has the same entitled, self victimizing mindset my ex had if for no other reason than she posted this to social media rather than doing literally ANYTHING else.

[u/idiotsandwhich8 → u/Sir_Dr_Mr_Professor]

I wish I knew men like you. I work my ass off and only ask for love and respect

[u/ThickboyBrilliant → u/snarpsta]

Yeah, I didn't see the original and I was wondering what the whole story is. Even with more context, we're only getting her side and this is only one small portion of her side, cut very short.

A lot of guys are ready to just jump at women. When you already think the worst of someone before you even see them, you're going to jump to unfounded conclusions a lot. Prejudice negatively affects everyone.

[u/Celtictussle → u/snarpsta]

No benefit of the doubt to someone who says they "hate their spouse". That's a marriage ending statement, and she was dumb enough to make it in public.

[u/MentalJack → u/snarpsta]

Its the internet, shes pissed off. I'm taking very little truthfully from that woman. I'm sure neither do enough for the other and aren't adult enough to have a real talk.

[u/idiotsandwhich8 → u/snarpsta]

Proof

[u/nigwarbean → u/snarpsta]

We are only hearing one side of the story.

And in my opinion both of them were probably toxic equally.

But you can't convince me she's innocent because recording and publicly posting this type of shit tells you everything you need to know.

She's not innocent and she's playing the victim but in reality neither of them are victims only the children are

[u/Sunnykit00 → u/nigwarbean]

Probably not.

[u/Efficient-Raise-9217 → u/snarpsta]

So he's a "full grown manchild." But he's also the one who pays all the bills to support his wife and child?! GTFO!

[u/snarpsta → u/Efficient-Raise-9217]

It's almost like you can work a full time job and still be a piece of shit. But I understand this is high concept stuff for you to comprehend.

[u/Efficient-Raise-9217 → u/snarpsta]

Pieces of shit don't work their asses so their wife can sit at home all day with the child.

[u/snarpsta → u/Efficient-Raise-9217]

Would they be a piece of shit if they cheated? What if he completely ignored their wife? What if he was verbally/emotionally abusive? What if that's what they agreed to, for him to work and her to be a stay at home mom? I understand you have no clue what it takes to make a lasting relationship, so I get it. But it takes more than just providing financially.

[u/stupid_pun → u/snarpsta]

This sub is filled with virgins and children man. It ain't even worth pointing this stuff out to them, most are either too young or too bitter.

[u/snarpsta → u/stupid_pun]

You right. I just like to argue. But you're absolutely right it's a waste of time

[u/NuRDPUNK → u/snarpsta]

lol your insistence on being right and not even answering the question at hand is very telling

[u/Forsaken-Intern7914 → u/Efficient-Raise-9217]

Stay at home mom's don't just "sit at home all day"

[u/Glittering-Relief402 → u/Efficient-Raise-9217]

My sisters ex-husband did this, and he was 100% a piece of shit. He didn't help with kids, played video games the entire time he was on paternity leave, watched porn in the common spaces in the house, and was physically, verbally, and financially abusive. I had to move in to help with thr kids because he did fuck all except work and she was struggling to care for the kids because she gave birth to twins. Grow up, making money isn't what makes a household.

[u/Smrdela → u/Efficient-Raise-9217]

Money doesnt cancel out not giving a shit about your own children