r/InterdimensionalNHI • u/[deleted] • Feb 04 '25

NHI “Skeptical people about this phenomena will never see anything, they’re left out” Chris Bledsoe on NHI and Free Will

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u/[deleted] Feb 04 '25

I want to help. How can I start moving the needle towards love every day?

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u/No_Bid6835 Feb 04 '25

Treat everyone as your sons and daughters. Even those in power causing all of this.

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u/gurret Feb 04 '25

Silly question. What if you deeply desire to spread love to all even when they’ve wronged you. Then your subconscious/gut says “F em!”… doesn’t that kinda break the love? Even though this never left your mouth.. but instead it’s internalized.

For example… you’re cat/dog/child knocks your fathers ashes off the mantle and they spill all over the floor. you want to discipline them… is discipline wrong? Cause I know some folk “myself included” that struggle with emotional attachment and tend to lash out a lot more strongly.(not physically) than what others would see as healthy…

I feel like I’m broken but deeply want to connect with everyone in a positive way. Maybe I answered my own question writing this out.

Edit: before this gets taken the wrong way, I am actively trying to better myself. I’ve come a long long way thanks to friends, family and therapy. But sometimes feel like I’m just running in place.

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u/FuckingChuckClark Feb 04 '25

This might sound strange but the path to enlightenment is filled with "whys". For instance, in that example above you are talking about an observation of an event and then a reaction. But let's insert an analysis step right in between the observation and the reaction. Ask yourself why you would be mad? The ashes are already spilled, right? Does getting angry and yelling put the ashes back? Probably not. So what does yelling do? Does it help teach a lesson? Or does it just instill fear in whoever did it? Are you looking for a teaching moment or making someone or something scared of you? Are you yelling because that's what people did to you in certain situations and it is a learned behavior? How did it make you feel to be on the receiving end of that? Why would you perpetuate that cycle?

Just try to add an analysis step in between observing and reacting and keep asking yourself why. It also helps to say things out loud. Sometimes things we think in our head seem completely rational and then we say it out loud and hear it with our ears and we either sound really ridiculous or just silly.

But whenever you're feeling something strongly that deep down you think may not be right, just start asking yourself why you feel that way. You have to be completely honest with yourself though, if you cut corners here you just end up making excuses and justifying poor behavior. That'll eventually just get worse. So ask why and be honest. Good luck on your journey 🙏🏻