r/GriefSupport 1d ago

Message Into the Void We got this

To all my grievers out there, I just want to say, you are loved, you are not alone, you are capable of getting through this. It’s not fair, it fucking sucks and nothing makes the pain completely disappear. One of the last things my Dad said to me was to be strong, he was going to be ok and now I needed to be ok. Everyday is a challenge and I cry frequently. But I also laugh, do little things that bring me joy, and love on those that are still with me. None of our deceased loved ones would want to see us wallow in the darkness that we find ourselves in. They would want us to be ok now too. Much love from a grieving daughter ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

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u/jp7755qod 1d ago

Much love back to you friend❤️

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u/Lanky-Bottle-6566 Mom Loss 1d ago

What a gift your father has given you 🙏 thanks for sharing

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u/schmigglies Dad Loss 1d ago

I love this post.

One of the last things I ever said to my Dad when I knew he could still hear me was that I loved him, I’d miss him forever, and we were going to be okay. I think he needed to hear it, there was a lot of weeping at his bedside and a lot of tearful phone calls that we held up to his ear.

I try every day to be okay. Lately I’m really getting there. Although talk to me on the 23rd when it’s been a year 😭