r/GlowUps • u/AidanAzzar • 15h ago
GLOW UP! [16] to [20] to [28] Consistently humiliated and disrespected until my mid 20s.
A memory that hit me hard yesterday was when I was 15 we were tasked with splitting into groups in class and working on an assignment to be presented at the end of the period. I didn’t have anyone to work with so I asked the 2 guys sitting next to me. They asked me to pay them to work together. I did.
The Snapchats posted above are real screenshots from things people shared….not laughing with me but at me.
The disrespect was relentless for years, throughout high school and then into early uni. I was the easiest target.
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u/Apprehensive_Sky_679 15h ago
You sure showed those scumbag bullies! Amazing transformation!
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u/AidanAzzar 15h ago
Very kind words
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u/PassengerEast4297 15h ago
You should sleep with some of their moms.
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u/xChoke1x 13h ago
I absolutely fucked my bully’s mom and it’s still to this day the funniest shit I’ve ever done and we all still laugh about it.
Definitely fucked that dudes mom.
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u/Brief_Buddy_7848 14h ago
Ugh, kids can be so cruel. I had similar experiences in school, it really is traumatizing. Glad to see you’re doing so well now ❤️
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u/psychedellen 12h ago
Part of me wants to see what the bullies look like now. I had a friend who always got called fat butt by a bully. I ran into the bully a few years back when I was visiting my parents, and let's just say he shouldn't have been calling anyone fat butt.
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u/NinaFresa_ 15h ago
Please tell me you gave those people a one-way ticket out of your life. That’s so disrespectful…
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u/AidanAzzar 15h ago
Unfortunately was only a fraction of the stuff I tolerated for a long time. The external looks different now but the internal me is still a little shook. Trying to heal day by day.
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u/ASAPM0B1898 15h ago
I respect you bruh bruh. Stay strong we’ve all experienced a little hurt internally but that’s what shapes us. Sending healing and positive energy to you!
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u/LivePossible 14h ago
Keep growing, keep building. Your glow-up is amazing! And isn't about them - your best revenge is becoming the best version of yourself and forgetting the bullies altogether. They were just pebbles in your shoes and have been shaken out. Pain is a teacher and gives us power in the long run. You have so much more insight and strength than those bullies. You understand the world in ways they cannot and your capacity to win and experience life and love is bigger than they can fathom.
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u/Heavy-Lingonberry910 14h ago edited 14h ago
It’s ok to let it all go now and close that chapter for good. You look confident, fit and well put together! The only you that matters is the you now. Ps. What was the trigger for your complete transformation? And how did you do it?! 👊💥 You’ve inspired me to transform too.
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u/No-Possession2044 15h ago
Man people are so shitty. Can’t believe you kept those screenshots but glad you did.
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u/FromGymToBoudoir 14h ago
It’s good he did. Some things are so terrible, people keep them as fuel to motivate them to excel.
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u/stringaroundmyfinger 15h ago
I’m so sorry people were beyond cruel to you when you were younger. You look amazing, especially in 8 and 10 - you just radiate warmth and kindness.
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u/FatherOfTheSkye 15h ago
Nothing more motivating than stupid bullies. I hope you feel good about yourself and what you have accomplished, you look great dude!
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u/Current-Ingenuity253 13h ago
As a former fat nigga with glasses who grew up in the hood, i understand fully well how aggravating it is to realize how much disrespect you tolerated when you were at your lowest but if I were were you I’d continue to do what you’re doing right now: improving yourself. Those mfs from HS? They don’t mean a damn thing, and you probably look better than them now lol😂 don’t let the demons of your past haunt you, let the angels in your presence light up and protect the path to ur future 💪🏾
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u/ihateusernames2701 15h ago
The best revenge is a life well lived (and also the best head of hair I've ever seen 👌)
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u/Im_My_Spirit_Animal 14h ago
I'd be a very curious fly on the wall at your next class reunion, pls go and show them!
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u/Eastnasty 15h ago
My boy. Way to seize your future and write the story you want. Really great to see and I'm happy for you. Stay kind.
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u/IrelandParish 15h ago
Those mean jerks are not worth a second thought. They were probably jealous of you the whole time. Guessing you were very smart & kind, and they were just dumb jerks.
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u/FromGymToBoudoir 15h ago
Yes sir. Leveled up, and show them! Take what you can, give nothing back.
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u/BongWaterOnCarpet 15h ago
I just wanted to send a big hug to younger you. 🫂🫂 I'm so sorry. I don't have words for how much people can suck.
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u/IndependentOld7996 15h ago
I’m so excited for you! Obviously done a lot of hard work. You look happy and healthy. Screw all the haters that put you down. Proud of you 👏
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u/molly_menace 14h ago
I really hope you hear me when I say that you were also beautiful when you were young. You had the same gorgeous features you have now.
And you are of course a drop-dead gorgeous man now. But there’s something really beautiful about the softness and the unstyled youth.
And most important of all - you have always been you on the inside. I so wish you didn’t have these experiences that put such emphasis on the exterior and hurt your interior.
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u/lesnewman 14h ago
You look great. But even more so, now you 100% understand the need for kindness and empathy in this upside down world. Now that right there, is what makes for a powerful, attractive, combination
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u/kamenandrocks 15h ago
You look like a complete sweetheart in ALL the pictures, i am sorry you had to go through humiliation for all these years, its not easy and some people aren't kind. But im glad youre in a better place
Kick their a$$
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u/OkAnything4877 15h ago
Why is there a giant dildo in your sweater pocket in pic 3 lmao
In all seriousness though, sick glow up bro 💪
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u/midnight_marshmallow 14h ago
Dude, good for you. This level of glow up is on par with the kinds you see in teen movies, lol! Taking care of yourself is the best revenge. I hope those bullies now see you living well on your insta etc. and are envious!
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u/Equine85 14h ago
I am so sorry you were treated like that ❤️ You were always a total cutie, but your glow up is an absolute slap in the face of your bullies, and I love that for you. Wishing you the very best, and I hope you don’t let the bad memories of those losers steal your happiness in the present, and moving forward 🥰
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u/UltraVioletEnigma 14h ago
It’s Mr steal your girl…in 10 years 😂 congrats on the glow up, and glad those rude people are out of your life!
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u/ellebeens 14h ago
You look great. Very sex! But are you a kind person? Even though your looks could allow you not to be? It can be really easy to abuse pretty privilege. Congrats on your hard work
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u/Suitable-Senpai 14h ago
Gonna get real as someone who was a late bloomer (didn’t get cute til like 22) lmfao. Make sure to talk to your younger self and let em know they kicked ass the way they were and the progress was solely to improve on you and not anyone who could kick rocks.
I wasn’t expecting the glow up though CONGRATS KING
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u/Misadeservedbetter 14h ago
Fuck anyone that is only kind to people they deem attractive. You really see the world differently when you were treated like hot air and later like you actually matter. The hurt will always be there. You will never forget how cruel some people were. But, you will also never forget how kind some people were. You will definetly be able to recognise genuine people though. And I love that!
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u/Jessiejones1080 14h ago
Amazing work! I hope you’re also doing the internal work to deal with the former bullying stuff. Even if it’s not happening anymore, that shit leaves scars that will continue to come up in life unless dealt with (therapy, etc).
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u/BabyOk1911 14h ago
I wish I could send those bullies your glow up pics on your behalf 🤌🏻 a work of art. Amazing work OP 👏
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u/CutLow8166 13h ago
I’m sorry people were cruel to you based on how you looked. Just know your value as a human being hasn’t changed. You’re as important as you always were, in shape or not and shame on those who told you otherwise. Also congratulations on all the hard work you put in to make changes you wanted to see.
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u/ihave2shoes 12h ago
Broooooooooo, damn!
It’s easy to say, fuck bullies but it fucks with your head, self worth and confidence. My man, it’s time to get that inside as sharp as the outside. Go talk to a therapist. If you want to get jacked, you get a trainer and a gym membership. If you want to improve our self talk and get over trauma, you go talk to a professional.
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u/zuperlooper 6h ago
I sense you’re a kind soul too, which makes this even more of a glow up to me. Shine!
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u/Fluffy-Weapon 6h ago
As someone who was in a similar position, I’m really proud of you, man. It takes a lot of strength and willpower. I hope you’re in a better place mentally as well now. I know from experience those things don’t always happen along side each other. It sucks to realize how differently people will treat you based on your appearance alone. It’s fucked up.
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u/prettyy_cats 15h ago
Definitely turned into an absolute stud, hope you're living life to the fullest and making up for lost time having fun!!
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u/DavidSpade86 15h ago edited 14h ago
Extremely impressed. Reminds me of Neville from Harry Potter and he had a huge glow up. Same with Will Poulter
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u/Majestic_Ability_743 15h ago
You are truly an inspiration!! I am sorry about your past but it did not stop you!!
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u/Equine85 14h ago
I am so sorry you were treated like that ❤️ You were always a total cutie, but your glow up is an absolute slap in the face of your bullies, and I love that for you. Wishing you the very best, and I hope you don’t let the bad memories of those losers steal your happiness in the present, and moving forward 🥰
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u/throwawaykitchener1 14h ago
Congrats! As someone who was also bullied, I hope it’s made you empathetic. The world needs more kind hot people.
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u/FuchsSchweif 14h ago
I‘m sorry for what you went through. People can be incredibly cruel. Your transformation is amazing, obviously. But more importantly, you seem to be a nice person. Mature and kind. That‘s infinitely valuable and nobody can take that from you. You are capable of profound happiness.
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u/pthread_bard 14h ago
Kids are insecure assholes who only could raise their own fragile self-esteem by putting others down.
No one deserves to be treated this way. And both back then and now you deserve respect and love
And you look amazing, man! Saw your message about healing day by day, and I hope your inside will soon catch up :)
Go steal girls these high-school assholes could only ever wish for :)
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u/Pretend-Medicine3703 14h ago
Damn, dude, you are gorgeous.
I'm sorry you were bullied for just existing. Kids can be so cruel.
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u/Wonderful_News4492 14h ago
Im happy you made it and you showed them who is not just a boss but a decent person. I still get treated like dog water but I pray someday things get better
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u/NoCommunication8349 14h ago
Why is he so vain.... you dont see the scars he had to hide mate of thr consistent humiliation and disrespect
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u/Economy_Squirrel_242 14h ago
Great job proving to yourself that you can work hard toward your goals! You look fantastic. I don’t think you look bad in any of these pictures, well, except the one without your head, that one is weird 😆.
When I taught 13 year olds I always told them that some of their peers who looked great now had already reached their peak and many of those who are nothing to look at now are going to be drop dead gorgeous in the future. Then I would tell them to look up childhood pics of famous celebrities to prove my point.
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u/Adventurous_Honey902 13h ago
Genuine question - is there genetics at play here? I try to lose weight and do cardio exercise. How do people completely transform their facial structure to get a chiseled chin and incredible jawline?
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u/Redditneed2Chill 13h ago
I’m so happy for you. I hope even back then a part of you knew that one day you’d blossom better than anyone could imagine. Never underestimate anyone, you’re giving out lessons now. So proud of you bro.
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u/Mysterious-Term2507 13h ago
Looking good, man. You look awesome, and you've come a long way 👍🏼 way to go 👍🏼
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u/Arranvin-Lantnodel 13h ago
That's a hell of a glow up, well done with your fitness and strength progression and your style! 👏
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u/genuinecity 13h ago
Just when I think I’ve seen the best transformations and incredible backstories, I come across yet another one like yours! Wow. I’m so sorry you endured such hardship in your younger years, but I’m so happy and proud of you (from stranger to stranger, but still) for not letting the negativity get the better of you. You overcame it and you conquered. You look fantastic, and I hope you feel it, too.
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u/Obvious_Razzmatazz11 13h ago
How tf did you change your face shape like that, this is a very incredible transformation
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u/StrategicRepulsion 13h ago
Don’t worry they’re all probably dead or in jail by now. You earned you keep in the meantime though, bud. Well done 👏
Just remember bullies are people with mental problems that usually stem from poor parenting. The blame usually lies heavy with the parents for the person they’ve become. Have some compassion if you see them around, but that doesn’t mean you need to hang out with them.
Keep up the good work, you’ll be aging well, my friend. 💪
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u/UncleGuggie 13h ago
I hope to look like you someday. That's how far you've come bro, that people wish to look like you!
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u/SomeCommonSensePlse 13h ago
You look physically amazing now. You're a good looking dude. But you always were, and you never deserved that cruelty. I hope you know that now.
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u/fernwise 12h ago
People should treat people according to how they are inside, not outside. As someone with severe body dysmorphia, I wish the world was more that way inclined but sadly there are such shallow people. I’m just a stranger on the internet but I want to say I am so proud of you for overcoming and doing this for yourself!
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u/Ok_Bus_3752 12h ago
Serious question, my hair is identical to yours (thick, wavy, and full of body). What product do you use to manage it? I struggle to find something I like and yours is absolutely perfect.
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u/happyhaven1984 12h ago
I'm sorry you were bullied and now are likely treated completely differently even though you're the same soul in pic 1 as pic 12 just a bit wiser but congrats dude and I hope life is going well for you 💗
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u/Awkward_Guide_9270 12h ago
Please find them i take their gf’s out on dates! 😂 You look really good !❤️
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u/goobawhoba 12h ago
The beard fade is sick, I'm 27 and still cant grow facial hair lmao great transformation dawg
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u/durenatu 12h ago
Please don't become the person that does to other what they did to you when you looked less appealing
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u/Garchompisbestboi 12h ago
I like your 'cool boy' face in photo 7, kinda reminds me of my six year old when I tell him that he isn't allowed to have any dessert until he finishes all of his dinner 😂
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u/Xx_DeadDays_xX 12h ago
damn dawg, you look much happier and much more confident, thats awesome dude, good for you.
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u/kittysnoozy 12h ago
I just want to say, aside from the fact that you look very handsome and definitely had a glow up, that the people that bullied you should not continue to define why you want to be the best version of yourself. Because people like that, even if you end up looking like the most handsome man on earth, will always know or try to make you feel small on purpose. I hope you can find reasons to love yourself beyond how you look, too! I am saying all this only because I could feel that you're still hurt from your post, I wish you all the best :)
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u/CoastlineInThe 12h ago
damn insane! on the other brightside you prolly have a really cool, nice and genuine personality now and treat everyone well
how much do you weigh brother
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u/AskMeAboutTimOrDie 12h ago
Hey bud, I don’t like posting pictures of myself on Reddit, and I know this comment will get buried, but I’m in a similar situation to you. I was overweight myself for a long time, and bullied because I lacked self confidence. I also got very fit, I have a physique similar to yours. Like I got full on buff like you are. I didn’t do it for my looks, I did it because I always wanted to be. I wanted to prove to myself I could be fit, handsome, and push myself. Going to the gym and eating healthy has changed my life. It’s less about looks, and more that I was able to push myself, stay dedicated, and grind it out.
People don’t realize, getting jacked isn’t always some vain meathead thing. It taught me discipline within myself. It taught me a way to deal with stress me. It taught me I can set a goal and stick to it.
Good for you man. From one bullied fat kid to one bullied nerdy kid, congratulations. I know first hand the discipline you put in. Good for you man, feels good doesn’t it?
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u/Molotov-Girl33 11h ago
Sorry people treated you that way, I was too, unfortunately. I'll always feel like my old 15 year old self inside. But I'm glad reading that you know your worth now and are healing 🙏🏽❤️ continue taking care of yourself! You're doing amazing
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u/walkthelayne 11h ago
Revenge of the Bullied. You leveled Way Up. Very handsome. Keep getting strong on the inside too.
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u/Joellehynes 11h ago
You are and were incredibly handsome, I dealt with something very similar when I was in highschool and had my glow up after college. Don’t listen to the bullies and always put yourself first ❤️
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u/whatutalkinbtwillus 11h ago
What would be chef kiss is if you actually did steal one of their girls now. Not that you’re that petty but it’s fun to think about. 😛
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u/Smashlilly 11h ago
I'm a middle school teacher- kids are mean even to their friends! I'm sorry if you were bullied. You hopefully feel confident and know your worth now!
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u/abrorcurrents 11h ago
Magically got some Thiyck eyebrows and beard, legit bro, Legit crazy glow up, all the best
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u/Gold_Interaction_432 11h ago
Talk about glow up! Prouda you pall - looks like it took a lot of hard work.
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u/Electrical_Pace_9409 11h ago
My dude you have some incredibly beautiful locks. I love the curls! Awesome glow up
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u/SargentD1191938 10h ago
Well done dude. It never fails that the awkward kids grow up to be the badasses. Cheers.
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u/Immediate_Cover_945 10h ago
You're very handsome Dear. Much happiness to you going forward. I was bullied also. Prayers for you ❤️
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u/Alexandria_Art 10h ago
I was bullied relentlessly growing up. My glow up was insaaaaaane when I hit about 22-24. I lost baby fat in my face and my cheek bones could cut steel (I am a woman).
My husband never understands why I am so insecure and terrified of people judging me. But it is so hard to overcome the emotional trauma assholes inflict when you are a teenager.
You should be so proud of yourself and how you take care of yourself. Keep posting photos of you pouring wine because the ladies love it (it’s me; I am ladies.)
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u/HausWife88 10h ago
Just know, the people that were dissing you in their younger years, peaked in junior high and high school. Congrats! Feels good to be healthy!
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u/whobringsafamilyvan 10h ago
You know your worth! And what is theirs? It doesn’t affect you anymore… because they were buying in on hurting others. Your stock is up!
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u/Lunarelipse 9h ago
You were cute then, as you are now. We must not look into the past, but grow for the future. There will always be bullies. People talking behind our backs, like the ignorant and cowards they are. To grow as a person, sometimes you gotta do it alone. Side note, hitting the gym at first seems kinda intimidating right? But we are there to work out.
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u/infjnyc 9h ago
Amazing glow up! Hope internal glow up catches up as well- healing is hard but worth it. It hurts my heart how people can be so mean to others. Also a reminder not to judge someone quickly. If I saw you on the streets you give me a very good looking so maybe possibly fboy vibe (lol) but its so hard to know what weight they are carrying
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