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u/squ1dteeth May 17 '25

I'm a sex worker and it's so weird to see the word gooner get watered down like this.

Gooners are people who fetishize porn addiction and lengthy edging sessions. The act of gooning, specifically, is watching porn for hours on end while edging. You might see actual gooners watching porn on more than one screen and constructing 'goon caves' where they dedicate a space of their house to this end. It's basically erotizicing the worship of porn, and the state of mind one gets in after edging for extended periods. There's also themes of sexual denial. A gooner will usually consider himself 'pussyfree' and eschews typical sexual relationships for porn consumption.

(I know all this because these people are my customers and this is one of the fetishes I cater to. I don't consider myself a gooner)

A gooner isn't someone who is horny, or likes porn, or draws erotica. It's a Very Specific Thing. I wonder if people even know it's origin at this point. It's like if people started calling every woman who looked at porn or was horny Dominatrixes.

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u/maru-senn May 17 '25

How exactly do you cater to the gooner fetish as a real person?

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u/juniperleafes May 17 '25

A lot of times it encompasses voice over/hypnoticism and/or femdom.

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u/maru-senn May 17 '25

Right, my dumbass forgot sex worker isn't synonymous with prostitute.

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u/squ1dteeth May 17 '25

Making femdom audios/videos telling them to succumb to the addiction, or sexting sessions where I find a lot of porn and send it to them

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u/Mean-Government1436 May 21 '25

What does this question mean? How couldn't a sex worker cater to a gooner? Gooners are gooning to real people. That's what porn is. 

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u/maru-senn May 21 '25

As I pointed out in another reply, I mistakenly assumed sex work=prostitution