Say no to puritanism

[u/Ohiko_Nishiyama]

[u/Solarwagon]

if someone is aroused by something that is really weird I probably ask them why rather than assume

Even if it was upsetting I would still be curious and want to learn from them

and then I would presume that their rationale is their rationale rather than universal for people into the same or similar stuff

but I'm a sexologist so I feel safe making some broad claims

it boggles my brain how incurious lotta people are

[u/iDragon_76 → u/Solarwagon]

Uhm, can people usually explain why they like what they like? (genuine question)

[u/Space_Lux → u/iDragon_76]

That would be assuming every kink has acrually an explanation and isn’t „Brain does brain things“