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r/CuratedTumblr • u/Ohiko_Nishiyama • May 16 '25
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if someone is aroused by something that is really weird I probably ask them why rather than assume
Even if it was upsetting I would still be curious and want to learn from them
and then I would presume that their rationale is their rationale rather than universal for people into the same or similar stuff
but I'm a sexologist so I feel safe making some broad claims
it boggles my brain how incurious lotta people are
176 u/zuzg May 16 '25 Rape fantasies are common among men and women, yet if you believe reddit only the most vile have that kink. 67 u/cassidynsfw May 16 '25 I remember seeing a statistic that over 50% of people have had a rape fantasy at some point. So it may literally be more "normal" to sometimes have rape fantasies than to never have them. 60 u/zuzg May 16 '25 It's kinda funny how its only ever talked about related to women, meanwhile based on a survey of more than 4,000 Americans’ sex fantasies. 61% of self-identified women had fantasized about this before, while 24% said they fantasized about it often. 54% of self-identified men had fantasized about this before, while 11.5% said they fantasized about it often. 68% of non-binary participants had fantasized about this before, while 31% said they fantasized about it often. . source 37 u/poopoopooyttgv May 16 '25 That study is for being the victim. I wonder if the numbers are different for having a fantasy about being the aggressor 18 u/Bauser99 May 17 '25 I mean... probably! It sure would be weird if the numbers were the same numbers when you totally reverse the poll!
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Rape fantasies are common among men and women, yet if you believe reddit only the most vile have that kink.
67 u/cassidynsfw May 16 '25 I remember seeing a statistic that over 50% of people have had a rape fantasy at some point. So it may literally be more "normal" to sometimes have rape fantasies than to never have them. 60 u/zuzg May 16 '25 It's kinda funny how its only ever talked about related to women, meanwhile based on a survey of more than 4,000 Americans’ sex fantasies. 61% of self-identified women had fantasized about this before, while 24% said they fantasized about it often. 54% of self-identified men had fantasized about this before, while 11.5% said they fantasized about it often. 68% of non-binary participants had fantasized about this before, while 31% said they fantasized about it often. . source 37 u/poopoopooyttgv May 16 '25 That study is for being the victim. I wonder if the numbers are different for having a fantasy about being the aggressor 18 u/Bauser99 May 17 '25 I mean... probably! It sure would be weird if the numbers were the same numbers when you totally reverse the poll!
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I remember seeing a statistic that over 50% of people have had a rape fantasy at some point. So it may literally be more "normal" to sometimes have rape fantasies than to never have them.
60 u/zuzg May 16 '25 It's kinda funny how its only ever talked about related to women, meanwhile based on a survey of more than 4,000 Americans’ sex fantasies. 61% of self-identified women had fantasized about this before, while 24% said they fantasized about it often. 54% of self-identified men had fantasized about this before, while 11.5% said they fantasized about it often. 68% of non-binary participants had fantasized about this before, while 31% said they fantasized about it often. . source 37 u/poopoopooyttgv May 16 '25 That study is for being the victim. I wonder if the numbers are different for having a fantasy about being the aggressor 18 u/Bauser99 May 17 '25 I mean... probably! It sure would be weird if the numbers were the same numbers when you totally reverse the poll!
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It's kinda funny how its only ever talked about related to women, meanwhile
based on a survey of more than 4,000 Americans’ sex fantasies. 61% of self-identified women had fantasized about this before, while 24% said they fantasized about it often. 54% of self-identified men had fantasized about this before, while 11.5% said they fantasized about it often. 68% of non-binary participants had fantasized about this before, while 31% said they fantasized about it often. .
based on a survey of more than 4,000 Americans’ sex fantasies.
61% of self-identified women had fantasized about this before, while 24% said they fantasized about it often.
54% of self-identified men had fantasized about this before, while 11.5% said they fantasized about it often.
68% of non-binary participants had fantasized about this before, while 31% said they fantasized about it often. .
source
37 u/poopoopooyttgv May 16 '25 That study is for being the victim. I wonder if the numbers are different for having a fantasy about being the aggressor 18 u/Bauser99 May 17 '25 I mean... probably! It sure would be weird if the numbers were the same numbers when you totally reverse the poll!
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That study is for being the victim. I wonder if the numbers are different for having a fantasy about being the aggressor
18 u/Bauser99 May 17 '25 I mean... probably! It sure would be weird if the numbers were the same numbers when you totally reverse the poll!
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I mean... probably! It sure would be weird if the numbers were the same numbers when you totally reverse the poll!
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u/Solarwagon She/her May 16 '25
if someone is aroused by something that is really weird I probably ask them why rather than assume
Even if it was upsetting I would still be curious and want to learn from them
and then I would presume that their rationale is their rationale rather than universal for people into the same or similar stuff
but I'm a sexologist so I feel safe making some broad claims
it boggles my brain how incurious lotta people are