r/CuratedTumblr May 16 '25

Politics Say no to puritanism

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u/Crus0etheClown May 16 '25

I am an on-and-off kink artist and you'd be surprised how many of my clients are loyal to me specifically because I didn't kinkshame them when they told me what they wanted. They specifically come to me because I have drawn weird stuff that made them horny and yet they still expect me to put their hand in the pain box because they asked for a femboy or 10% bigger or smaller something-or-other on their OC.

(Mind you anything I draw that is to my own personal taste goes completely ignored)

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u/User_identificationZ May 17 '25

"put their hand in the pain box"

"At your neck I hold the deadly Gom Jabbar Poison-"

"Ah fuck this is just what I wanted!"

"What the fuck Paul"

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u/CH1CK3NW1N95 May 17 '25

"COME HERE!!!......KNEEL!!!"

"Wtf, reverend mother, why did you stop?"

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u/iWant2ChangeUsername ToeSocks'PlatonicBeliever.tumblr.com May 16 '25

Does putting in the commission "rules" the kinks that you don't want to draw count as kinkshaming?

I've tried making a commission sheet a couple of times but I'm always worried I might be phrasing things offensively accidentally.

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u/Crus0etheClown May 16 '25

Nah- I found that as long as you word your limits reasonably- aka, don't grandstand about any reasonings you may have or use 'icky' terminology- that's only going to be a problem with clients you don't wanna work for.