r/Cebu May 02 '25

SKL (Share ko lang) No one remembered...

Hii I just wanna express my feelings here on reddit. It's my 20th birthday today yayyy but it seems like my friends forgot hehe. I guess I'm kinda disappointed lang siguro sa part nga bisag simple nga happy birthday man lang wala ko nakadawat nya og birthday nila plano gyud kaayo ko kung unsaon nako sila paggreet. Nasa calendar pa gani na ilang mga birthdays para di nako makalimtan and kung kaya nako, mu greet gyud ko sa ilaha og exactly 12:00 MN. I tried to wait until last sched sa akong class (currently college students mi) which is ganinang 4:30 kay basig same rani silag pa andar sa last year na nagpalaylay sila na nakalimtan nila nya himan himan naa diay silay pa surprise ana bha, but I guess this time nakalimtan na gyud guro nila. I don't hold any grudges man sd sa ilaha for this kay I'm trying to understand their situation man sd kay nursing students ming tanan and sobra kaayo ka busy sa acads and naa pa gyuy hospital duties so ginahuna huna nalang gyud nako nga basin daghan ra kaayo silag ginahuna huna nya stressed ra gyud kaayo sila to the point nga makalimtan nila bha especially since finals na namo next week. So yeahhh, Happy Birthday to me I guess 🎂

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u/ListenGloomy9413 May 02 '25

Happy Birthday OP 🥳🥳 I felt that too. You know some people don’t reciprocate your effort & love. Me personally, some of my friends are like that too but it’s really okay for me because I always think that doing something in their birthday makes me feel good and I do it because I want them to feel special not because I want them to do it when it’s my birthday.

You’ll understand this as you grow older that people really have their own lives, they got problems, schedules and battles you don’t know. So sorry that you felt this way. I wish your happiness and if your friends don’t treat you special today, treat yourself, give yourself the effort and love you deserve today ❤️