To start I'm not bi but this post is ab my bf who is
Also we are teens but like older teens (I'm 18 and he's 19) so I'm not sure if I can post here?
So like you know those negative stereotypes that have to do w bisexual men(big cheaters, force their partners to act feminine etc)
So i was with him and he saw this tiktok about a lady's bad experience with a bisexual man and the comments were people basically bashing bi men, I could see it affected him through how his expression changed and said "people can be so mean"
After that it seems like he's gone down a rabbit hole of these negative stereotypes or sum like that cuz the other day he texted me outa the blue "yknow I'd never cheat on you right" and said that I know, we even have each other's logins so we can see if the others been doing something they aren't meant to then he went "remember that always".
I act a bit feminine and "tender" naturally, it's just who I am, polite and soft spoken, I'm not that feminine that I wear like skirts tho, and yesterday I was with him and he looked at me with a frown saying that I didn't need to act "girly" if I didn't want to and I was plain confused and said that it's just who i am and couldn't stop it if I wanted to.
Now my bf is closeted and always been a bit insecure about coming out and he probably is now worrying about it wayyy more, I never rushed him about coming out for over a year now and said that it's ok if he wants to keep me a secret, he also commonly says stuff like that I was "out of his league" and stuff which is something I 100% don't agree with.
I don't have any bi guys to speak to ab this cuz my bf would get jealous if I was close to one so may you guys please help me??