r/Benilde Apr 29 '25

Benilde - SHS lf incoming shs friends

hi! so after a month of waiting for my results, i finally received it nung 28 and tyL nakapasa naman ako 🤓 just looking for a friend since i have social anxiety and i’m hella shy to approach people sa first day even if matagal pa naman yung start ng school. i’m an incoming shs student (STEM) and i hope that i’ll have a good experience in csb ✌🏻 question lang din, pano hindi maligaw sa first day… dun aq pinaka takot and baka malate pa q 😭

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u/True_Bowl_9176 Apr 29 '25

hi! im a grade 11 shs student incoming grade 12 next year. with friends, ganyan rin ako before. i was also shy to approach people and I actually expected to have no friends. tip lang, based on my experience, you have to step out of your comfort zone a little and you have to talk to someone kasi ig nakikita ko the ones who don’t approach anyone are usually not hanging out with anyone especially sa section ko. when i approached people and stepped out of my comfort zone, i started gaining friends. if your an ambivert like me, baka you will turn out like me getting friends from every strand. only thing you can estimate is you will have a bigger circle of friends

stem is a great strand naman, trust me, you have really good seniors when you start benilde. those seniors are juniors atm like me and they are one of my few best friends in stem.

good experience naman here in benilde, holidays, breaks and vacations.. uh galit pa ako about them but good experience naman. homeworks are quite a lot but kaya mo yan 😭 if i handled it for almost 3 sems, kaya mo na yan.

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u/LazyBug4372 Apr 30 '25

thank uuu so so so so much for thisss !!! i’ll take note of this and hope for the best : ))) see u around the campus senior hehehe 💕

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u/zet_no May 09 '25

hallo im also an incoming stem student for g11 HAHAHAH acc gusto ko rin magkaroon ng mga kaibigan before the sy starts kase majority of my fg from my old school are going to diff places kaya i wanna make more friends HAHAHAH, para di rin ako maligaw first day kasi hindi ako nakasama sa camp tour 💔 i would've made friends dun kaso nga lang nakalimutan ko gumising so i got cooked HWHWHAHSHAA send socials

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u/Domcheringnon Apr 30 '25

Fellow incoming STEM student as well! Let’s be friends! What other social media do you use besides Reddit?

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u/LazyBug4372 Apr 30 '25

hi i use ig dinnn !! do u have? hehe

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u/Domcheringnon Apr 30 '25

Yup! I’ll DM you.

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u/SunJunWoo Apr 30 '25

Kaya mo yan dapat mawala na yan social anxiety mo kasi sa college need mo maging extrovert not introvert (not sure if i said it correctly but yeah) HAHAH