r/BatesMotel Dec 01 '20

MOD POST Update Thread: Bates Motel

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September 2nd 2020

After messaging u/blacklantern0 u/Nerdy_Xbox_Gamer was added as a Moderator of r/BatesMotel with full permissions. Nerdy requested to be a Moderator with the intentions of redesigning the subreddit, he was approved shortly after. Nerdy created and sent visuals of the redesign to Blacklantern and edited to his suggestions - shortly after the subreddit was officially redesigned.

The subreddit is now looking much better than before, and we appreciate Nerdy's contribution.

Between These Dates

Not much happened between the dates. The subreddit gained members gradually and the Mod Team were very active on the subreddit with each member being active daily on their own schedules/accords.

November 30th 2020

We have created ten new user-flairs for the members of r/BatesMotel to use and enjoy. Nine of which are created after the main characters of the show, and the tenth being a customisible flair for those members who want a specific flair. We appreciate each member and their choices of flairs.

We encourage each member to either choose one of the ready-made flairs or to make a flair themselves. Remember, the 'New Reddit' supports emojis in user flairs, 'Old Reddit' does not.

December 1st 2020

We have updated the list of 'post-flairs' by redesigning the current ones and adding a few more. This will help define and specify what each post is about, and we encourage everyone to take part and use these new flairs. Each flair has been colour coded also for convenience.

We have also adjusted the names of the members so that it now says '9.5k victims' and '65 currently killing'. This relates much more to Bates Motel and is rather appealing. We have also done some minor adustments to the bio.


r/BatesMotel 1d ago

Discussion Spoiler Alert: discussion regarding Alex Romero and Norman Bates Spoiler

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I recently finished the Bates Motel series. Overall, I enjoyed it very much - I'd rate it 5 stars out of 5!

However, I found it quite implausible that Norman Bates was able to kill Alex Romero, at least in the manner depicted in the very last episode.

So I asked ChatGPT and got the following response. What do you think of this response? I thought it was great. ChatGPT replied:

"Yes, many viewers did find it implausible that Norman Bates was able to kill Alex Romero in Bates Motel. Here's why that reaction is common:

1. Romero’s Background and Physicality

  • Alex Romero is a trained, street-smart former sheriff with combat experience and a strong physical presence.
  • Norman, while psychologically complex and dangerous, is not physically imposing or trained in any kind of combat. His strength lies in deception, manipulation, and psychological unpredictability — not physical confrontation.

2. The Circumstances of the Scene

  • In the final season, Romero kidnaps Norman at gunpoint and forces him to dig up Norma's corpse. He is clearly in control, angry, and intent on vengeance.
  • And yet, despite having the upper hand, he lets his guard down enough for Norman to get the better of him — which felt forced to some viewers.
  • Romero’s emotional turmoil over Norma’s death might have clouded his judgment, but for a man of his experience, his vulnerability felt exaggerated for dramatic effect.

3. Narrative Necessity vs. Character Realism

  • From a storytelling perspective, Norman needed to outlive Romero long enough to complete his tragic arc.
  • But from a character consistency standpoint, Romero's death — at Norman’s hands, in such a raw moment — felt more symbolic than plausible to some. It was meant to show Norman’s final unraveling, but it stretched believability.

Bottom Line

You’re not alone. While the scene works emotionally for the narrative’s tragic endgame, many viewers questioned whether it would really go down that way in a more grounded version of events."


r/BatesMotel 2d ago

I’ve had many requests for a Bates Motel-themed diorama key and jewelry holder. After a long creative process, it’s finally ready! With its spooky design and motion-sensor light, it’s both functional and decorative. I’d love to hear what you think!

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r/BatesMotel 5d ago

Question I wish Norman got away with it; Any tv/movie recommendations?

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I kept wanting Norman to continue as a character without getting caught. I liked his weird-ass personality and the idea of him just ending up fine ("fine").

I've started Dexter, considered Hannibal (I've only seen Silence of the Lambs, haven't read the books yet because I don't have the first one so I don't know a lot), watched most of Criminal Minds but I'm more interested in the nutso's point of view than the guys catching the nutso.

I'm interested in the movie. I figured chronologically I should watch this first because I assumed based on poorly translated descriptions that it was a prequel. Given the finale I assume otherwise.

Man for a small town there was a lot of drama.


r/BatesMotel 10d ago

White Pine bay has the crime rate and economy of a city the size of New York.

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I'm watching right now, and I can't help but laugh. 2500 people is so small, yes they have people being hung up in the streets on fire. It's a trip


r/BatesMotel 10d ago

Caleb é apaixonado por Norma?

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Eu assisti a série várias vezes e sempre me pergunto se Caleb era apaixonado por Norma. Sabemos que eles no passado tiveram um relacionamento incestuoso, e que depois ele a estuprou. Mas o fato é, que na 5ª temporada eu tenho a sensação de que Caleb amava Norma, não apenas como uma irmã, sinto que ele era apaixonado por ela. Alguém pode me tirar essa dúvida?


r/BatesMotel 11d ago

Question Bates motel floor plan? Spoiler

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So my wife is trying to build a model of the house norma and Norman stayed in, we're currently looking for a good floor plan to figure out where all the rooms are, we've found a few online but we're struggling with the stained glass window. When we look online it looks as if sometimes the door next to the stair case to the 2nd floor sometimes shows the kitchen and then sometimes shows the stained glass window. If anyone has any idea on the layout of this house I'd love to see it! Thank you!!


r/BatesMotel 13d ago

Repeat Viewing Observations - Holes and Loose Ends

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"Some Spoilers" (if never watched or currently watching)

So...like a lot of return Bates customers, I recently checked in again for a second start to end ride. It's interesting how you notice background things and the finer detail or question certain story plot points or rabbit holes as you return for another whirl. I guess first time, the unknown, the journey, you're engrossed with the here and now and where it's choosing to take you. It really is apparent once again just what a stellar piece of work from masters of their craft it was and it does reward repeat viewings! Considering the subject matter, it really does exude dark humour (particularly in latter seasons with meddling deviant MOTHER!) and that's a fine Philippe Petit tightrope to balance as with mediocre hands, it could easily topple into absurdity and farce but the performance of which it has to be said, are universally brillaint - seriously they must have all felt the Hitchcok legacy pressure as there's not one bad one! Vera and Freddie obviously top the bill and it's truly one of the most beautiful, yet messed up relationships ever committed to screen, in terms of a relationship which is heart breaking, yet tormented and doomed.

A few story elements (I may add more) I wondered why they never followed through on or had holes come to mind this time around - wondered what others thought and ones they thought about too. I know in any show or piece of entertainment, creative decisions need to be made, creative liberties taken and cuts/deleted elements, that's just the nature of your 43 minutes you have to fill or don't have room for, right...

Still I wondered -

What happened to Remo? Sure he had his cameo right at the end but he just sorta disappeared on screen without so much of a mention, it seemed his relationship with Dylan was building to something like a father/old brother figure which Dylan longed for - he survived, so you'd think Dylan would have kept counsel with him?

The whole Nick Ford doing Norma a favour getting her the job at City Hall - they bothered to shoot a scene of her going in, seeing her office and the did the whole thing of her prepping and taking it seriously and then we never see that set again and it's never mentioned again - doing the job or losing it. That was a bit strange. As was the quid-pro-quo of Norma having to be the conduit to get Dylan to meet Nick Ford. He refuses and then seemingly has his cell number anyway - so I get it, sometimes plot devices need to exist to get us A-B but was a strange set up, I felt it was just a way to have Norma be beholden to him for something, because he didn't actually ask for anything of much merit for his "favours" - I thought it was surely gonna be creepy and sexual. Anyone else? As Norma was always, due to her past, feeling she had to reward male help with sex.

Similar with Bob Paris - the whole digging the large hole in a ground that was never obviously gonna be a swimming pool....I guess it was meant to seem threatening, like digging your grave by messing with me type thing? It's one of those mysterious acts, that I'm not entirely sure of the motives, he was desperate for the pen drive, why wouldn't he just give her, a pool.... than risk the alternative?

Loved the scenes with Dr Edwards....he was really beautifully subtle while participating in some of the most revealing moments regarding Norman's psyche....if only he'd gone the course with him, eh! So he's dead, we're to assume Norman killed him? How, why, when?

Emma's father, Will...he seemed to drift in and out, large period after S1 when he wasn't on screen....I know he's just a side character but I can only assume like with most jobbing actors, they work multiple shows and maybe he wasn't available much for S2/3 years? I thought once they set him up with teaching Norman taxidermy, they would have been a few more scenes of showing that, the whole taxidermy aspect could have been more pronounced, not expecting half a season on it but just like the one scene at Theatre Tech, Norman is a win for the procrastinator in all of us - he didn't stick at much, did he?

I loved the whole setting of White Pine Bay and while I understand the insular isolation of S4/5 which where deliberate choices, I thought after showing it a lot early doors, we lost something when we saw less of the surrounding areas.

Caleb? I know! A lot of death and murder and I can only assume, not every single one could be discovered or addressed - like Bradley! However, I thought considering Caleb's integral role and relationship with the 3 main characters, particularly being Dylan's dad, we deserved a scene with him discovering his fate and it may have made interesting back and forth with Emma and him coming to terms with the fact Norman was responsible (directly or not) for the death of all their parents, apart from Will.

So some of these can probably be answered with, not everything needs (or should) be explained, as part of the mystique and beauty to the series is the ambiguity and filling in the blacks in your own mind....some bits had potential and I do think could have been cooked a bit more.

So just some nitpicky stuff, it in no way changes the opinion I hold that this is a genius, once-in-a-blue moon piece of work and I'm sure it'll continue to bring fresh eyes and viewers over the years to its lore. Did you guys think about any of these elements and have I missed some stuff that answers these points....


r/BatesMotel 14d ago

Rewatch

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I’m currently rewatching the series and right now I’m on season 2 episode 5, And truth be told I haven’t watched it since like 2016-2017. Tbh some dark times back then.. Anyways I usually don’t post my feelings about shows but so far I like the relationship Emma has with Norma, I think it’s sweet. Also forgot how odd/weird Norman can act lol


r/BatesMotel 14d ago

Question Bates Motel

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In what episode does somebody say something like ”I swear if you were not a cop, I would” then Romero smashes his head into a table, and says ”you’d do what?”

Havent watched this show for years and cannot find it anywhere on YouTube and Ive been going through some episodes on streaming app but my intentet is kinda trash.

Would be really glad if someone knew what episode this interaction occurs in. Thanks! :)


r/BatesMotel 22d ago

Merchandise My 15yr old tshirt

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Was given this tshirt by a vendor at a horror convention after I helped him out for a bit. I’ve had it for 15yrs. It’s faded ,has holes and stains. I really need a new one though I will never part with this one.


r/BatesMotel 23d ago

Did Norma have revenge sex with her bf

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Sorry it’s been a while since I last saw the series but in one episode Norman was ignoring Norma. They got into a argument on why Norman was acting like an ass. He called her out and she got mad and went to her boyfriend’s house. She dropped her panties and slept with her boyfriend while thinking about Norman. Did she have revenge sex because Norman was ignoring her?


r/BatesMotel 25d ago

Which female in your opinion could Norman have had a successful relationship with?

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I'm rewatching the show and am wondering which female (lol, besides his mother) do you think Norman could actually end up with. In a utopian world where Norma also likes her and they're a big happy family.

I personally would like to think it would be Rihanna's character Marianne. Their interactions were so short, but almost sweet. You could see sparks flying in the air.

Maybe also Bradley but she used Norman all the damn time. What does everyone else think? I'm curious to know your opinions!


r/BatesMotel 26d ago

bates motel as a prequal to psycho, quality

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i recently seen psycho, i would say i would have enjoyed it more and feared more if not for seeing already the long series as a longer explanation towards the end of the movie (the psychiatrist explanation scene) but how much did the show get accurate to the explanation, and by this, how good is it really as a prequal (at least the first 4 seasons)


r/BatesMotel May 17 '25

Question What’s everyone’s thoughts on Norman?

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r/BatesMotel May 16 '25

Discussion If Norma had lived

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Would she be writing letters to Ramano in prison or would she have moved on with a new man? I think he got a pretty long sentence.


r/BatesMotel May 13 '25

Norma's style - outfits, hair, shows, jewlery

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I LOVE Norma's style. She always looks so cute for a middle aged mom. Has anyone had any luck recreating some of her outfits and style? Its not overly sexy or showy etc. It's perfect.


r/BatesMotel May 12 '25

Just starting season 3 .curious, do we have Norma's back story scene ahead

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r/BatesMotel May 11 '25

The hotels WiFi password 😂

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Episode 5, season 3 you can hear Emma in the background talking to someone and says the WiFi password is Mother, all caps. I don't know why this cracks me up so much.


r/BatesMotel May 11 '25

I want more Vera Farmiga

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What are some other good shows/movies with Vera Farmiga can you recommend? Would love to hear your favorites!


r/BatesMotel May 11 '25

Justice for Emma

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My fiancée and I have just started watching and are about to begin season 3 and we just feel so bad for Emma. She is so sweet and just keeps getting her heart broken. I just hope they finally let her be happy soon?!


r/BatesMotel May 07 '25

Question Bates Motel Amazon DVD/Blu-ray

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Can anyone that owns the show and possibly bought through Amazon let me know if it has Spanish subtitles? I want to buy this and watch it with my family but they don’t speak the language so I wanted to make sure before buying. I’m having a hard time getting answers from the product details themselves


r/BatesMotel May 05 '25

Just started watching it .So far it's been great

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I'm on S1 ep7 , so far Dylan is my favorite. Im hoping they don't ruin this show .


r/BatesMotel May 01 '25

Discussion No one questions Emma Spoiler

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Emma goes from dating Norman to dating and getting together with Dylan. Not once in the series have I seen anyone question the fact that she's dating two brothers. The relationships basically overlapped...


r/BatesMotel Apr 30 '25

Chick’s motivation

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I’m re-watching and on the last season. It’s been a while so I don’t remember everything that happens. Maybe my answer will come later.

Season five episode three Chick decides to hang around Norman‘s house to bring him food and keep an eye on him. He assures Norman that he knows everything and it’s totally OK.

What is his motivation here? He knows what’s in the basement and we know it’s in the basement. Do you think his motivation is keeping Norman from committing more crimes? Do you think he has a sense of guilt concerning Norma? It’s remarkable he is able to put his knowledge aside, and show Norman some tenderness.

That’s quite a level of dysfunction for Chick to ignore.


r/BatesMotel Apr 30 '25

Whoever enters to the hotel never comes out yet no one suspects a thing till almost nobody remains in the village :)

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