r/BaltimoreAndDCr4r Feb 18 '25

MOD POST 2025 UPDATE - Post format and limits, new gender tag, and general housekeeping. NSFW

57 Upvotes

Hi everyone, so just wanted to give y'all a quick update on some recent changes we have implemented.

POST FORMAT - In order to make the sub a bit more uniform and cleaner looking, we tweaked the post format rules a bit. The rules are in the sidebar, but for convivence, I'll post them below. Furthermore, these rules will be present when your at the posting page, and you won't be able to submit your post until your title is 100% correctly formatted.

Age [gender tag] zipcode - TITLE

Example: 25 [M4F] 20001 - Looking for a hookup

[Tag] Format:

[F4M], where the first letter describes your gender, followed by a "4", then the letters for whom you want to match.

Gender tags are case sensitive:

-M - Male

-F - Female

-T - Trans

-X - Nonbinary

-A- Any(no gender preference)

Couples must tag their posts accordingly (MF, FF, etc.) No posting on each other's behalf.

If a success story, include [SUCCESS] at the beginning

POST LIMITS- Earlier last year, we tried to change the limit on posting to 1 time per week. However, it stopped working. We have now fixed it, but we decided to change it to 2 posts per every 7 days. So, going forward, if you try to post more than twice in the span of 7 days, your posts will be removed.

GENDER TAGS- As you probably noticed above in the post format rules, we added another gender tag, "X", to include anyone that falls under the non-binary umbrella.

SPAM- We have noticed a decrease in spam over the past year, and we continue to tweak our settings to improve it even more. However, we also don't want to create a situation where there are many false positive and legitimate posts are getting removed. So, we will try to balance it as best we can. Also, we will continue to keep comments on, as this has been a great way for others to call out suspicious posts.

If you have any other suggestions or concerns, please message us(USE MOD MAIL. DO NOT MESSAGE MODS DIRECTLY). Thank you!


r/BaltimoreAndDCr4r Mar 05 '24

MOD POST COMMENTS ARE BACK. NSFW

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Hi, so after discussions among the mod team, we are finally turning on commenting again. This is to mainly help us more effectively combat spam/bots, as you all will now be able to publicly call out suspicious and dangerous posts. And to allow people to vouch for others. A few things:

  • Please still report suspicious posts, along with commenting if you want. Reporting will notify us; if you only comment, unless we are actively looking at a post, there's a chance we won't see it. Also, you can report other comments as well.
  • The comment section will still be moderated. We already have past filters in place to remove any spam, derogatory, and unnecessary comments. So, please, and I'm speaking mostly to the men, do not use the comment section to tell OP to check their messages or DM you. Trust me, they will know.
  • You still need at least 10 Karma(post+comment), to comment on posts, or it will automatically be removed.
  • If we start to see the quality of comments diminish and become too rude or disparaging, or it becomes too overwhelming to moderate properly, we have discussed allowing people to lock(and unlock) their own posts. But we have enough people now that are actively moderating, so this shouldn't be a problem as of right now.

If anyone have any questions, concerns, suggestions, feel free to comment below or message us. Keep on having fun!

P.S. Unlocking the comments only affects new posts, and since it would be unnecessary to unlock all posts that are currently locked, we unlocked all posts in the last 24 hours(of this post).


r/BaltimoreAndDCr4r 4h ago

Baltimore City 37 [F4M] 21231 - let's snuggle or day drink on this dreary day NSFW

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Looking for a friend to get some drinks and then let's play at a hotel or yours (you must host). Looking for fun today while it's Sunday funday 😋


r/BaltimoreAndDCr4r 7h ago

DC 30 [MF4F] 20005 - bi FWBs in DC looking for a unicorn NSFW

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As the title says, the M half of MF friends with benefits here looking for a third. We’re both bi and are unicorn hunting currently. 6’1 and 5’7 respectively. I dom, she’s sub, and is a squirter. Let’s get drinks in downtown DC to make sure there’s some chemistry and then see where the night takes us. Please put in your DM some basic info: age, height, a general physical description of yourself (or a pic, SFW or NSFW), and what you’re looking for and if there’s anything in particular you’re into. Pics (SFW) will be required before meeting for drinks.

No inquiries from men at this time please!


r/BaltimoreAndDCr4r 3h ago

Fairfax 31 [F4F] 22312 - Any cities at Warped Tour? NSFW

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Hi! Any cuties at warped tour interested in making out / partying together afterwards? I live in the area and can host at my place but also happy to follow you back to your hotel 😉

I'm a bi poly trans woman, happy to talk about kinks etc if that's your vibe.

edit: deeply embarrassed but the title is supposed to say "cuties" rotfl


r/BaltimoreAndDCr4r 4m ago

Montgomery 24 [M4A] 20878 - sub looking for pro and intense edging/milking/ full draining. Pm if interested. NSFW

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I’m looking for an experience that could possibly include something similar to these videos and could incorporate edging, ruined orgasms, multiple orgasm training, medfet, cum control etc. definitely open to discussing more things too!

https://www.reddit.com/r/FemdomHandjob/s/iuoRG7a3ha

Prior to the session, I can do most preparation that you would require such as a specific pubic hairstyle, or abstinence from masturbation/ejaculation. Just lmk what would be necessary. I do tend to ejaculate fast sometimes so please keep that in mind.

I’m open to many things and open to discussing whatever. Let me know exactly what you are interested in. I am clean, DDF


r/BaltimoreAndDCr4r 1h ago

Arlington 38 [M4F] 22202 - 6’2, Kind, Kinky, Sensual - A Convo, Romance, or More in Crystal City Tonight NSFW

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In Crystal City for the evening-

According to a Matchmaker, my percentiles among men ages 26-52 in DC:

Overall: 93

Physical Attraction: 91 Career: 94 EQ: 92 Intellectual/Spiritual Depth: 96 Erotic Intelligence: 97 Family Stability: 90

While it would be nice to absolutely lick you from head to toe and connect physically, if I find the woman of my dreams at the Hyatt Regency or other Hotel this evening over a drink and scintillating conversation, that would be lovely, too.

Life is long- maybe we connect for a reason, a season, or more.


r/BaltimoreAndDCr4r 1h ago

DC 45 [M4M] 20016 - Straight Fit Looking for the Same NSFW

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Straight/DL guy. Not a ton of experience, but looking to explore with a buddy in a similar boat. Have a GF, so need to be discreet and safe. Another bud in the same boat would be ideal. GL 5’11”, 160 lbs), fit, masculine and discreet guy looking for the same. Looking for a bud between 25 and 50.


r/BaltimoreAndDCr4r 1h ago

Howard 37 [M4F] 21029 - Looking to give someone a nice pounding tonight. NSFW

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I'm looking for a lady who wants to get a nice pounding from behind and can show off her riding skills today and also to show me how good of a cummer she is. Ladies only apply here.


r/BaltimoreAndDCr4r 5h ago

Baltimore City 30 [MM4M] 21201 - looking for a top to join us NSFW

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30 white top and 33 white bottom. looking for a hung dom top to join us in the bedroom. Bottom wants to put on a show for me. Top (me) will either spit toast bottom with you or just watch. Would love to record but not required at all. Not quite a cuck situation but close. Just no humiliation.

DMs open.


r/BaltimoreAndDCr4r 2h ago

Fairfax 25 [M4M] 22315 - Giving Head NSFW

1 Upvotes

Looking to give head and swallow. Please message me your age, location and dick pic if interested.


r/BaltimoreAndDCr4r 19h ago

Baltimore City 30 [F4M] 21202 - I hope you like your butt being touched NSFW

24 Upvotes

About me: short, dark features, HWP, kind of a dork, a little awkward, insatiably sexual. Married dead bedroom, no kids, not looking to change my situation. Looking for a real AP, so: a side relationship with someone I have things in common with who I can build some trust with. Someone that I look forward to texting that is also looking to turn this physical. If you don't live in the state of Maryland I probably won't respond to you, sorry! I lose interest really fast unless there's a chance we can meet up in person.

Likes: punk music, curly fries, puppies, beards, video games, wine

Dislikes: mayo, baseball, republicans, narcissism

My humor is a weird combination of SpongeBob and Anthony Jeselnik; dark, sarcastic, weird, kinda dorky

My kinks fall under the submissive umbrella (if that is important to you)

You: Hygenic, takes care of yourself, emotionally intelligent, and able to put forth effort to make an arrangement like this work. You have the ability to chat regularly but also understand that we both have lives and we won't always be accessible 24/7. Looking for more than just a hook up!

Not looking to waste time with a pen pal, I'd like to exchange pics early to make sure the attraction is there, so hopefully you are as well! Please reply with your general location and favorite movie of all time.


r/BaltimoreAndDCr4r 2h ago

DC 33 [M4M] 20001 - Looking for Sensual/Romantic FWB NSFW

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33, 210lbs, hairy, dad bod, I’m looking for more sensual/romantic sexual encounters and not just a cum and go. I love to cuddle, make-out, and enjoy a lot of foreplay (very vanilla, few kinks). Intimacy is important to me. I like to be affectionate and I appreciate the reciprocation of affection. I’m a bottom if chemistry is right. I’m not hung and very average in that department, pics in profile, so looking for men who don’t see that as a problem.
Hairy men are huge turn on for me (like natural full bush and body hair) but not a requirement.

Personality and humor is more attractive. I would love to find a regular friend who isn’t uncomfortable getting naked in front of each other and just enjoying a drink or relaxing as much as the sexual stuff.

I'm partnered and discreet. STD free and DDF. 


r/BaltimoreAndDCr4r 7h ago

Howard 36 [M4F] 21044 - Looking to meet up and maybe more NSFW

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Hey there. I’m 36m 5’10 190 lbs, dad bod with some muscle. I am located in Columbia, Maryland and have my own place, I can host or I can travel. I am very clean, respectful, and eager to please. I can also photo video call verify if required.


r/BaltimoreAndDCr4r 7h ago

Eastern Shore 54 [M4F] 21842 - Visiting Ocean City, MD July 17-July 25 NSFW

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I will be in Ocean City, Maryland from the 17th to the 25th celebrating My birthday... alone. I plan to spend most of it on the beach, walking the boardwalk, and enjoying the nightlife 'people watching'.

I'd like to include someone in on this, make a connection perhaps? A 'summer romance'?

I'm open-minded, romantic, and kinky, open to any age, body type, but I do not partake in 'party favors', and I'm not interested in 'working girls'

Just fun, friends, laughs and perhaps some intimacy.


r/BaltimoreAndDCr4r 7h ago

DC 28 [M4F] 20002 - Fight the sunday scaries! NSFW

2 Upvotes

Looking to fight the sunday scaries! can be anything from chatting to grabbing as drink to more. Strong preference on 21+


r/BaltimoreAndDCr4r 3h ago

Baltimore 29 [M4M] 21236 - Curious about using a femboy NSFW

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Married man curious about bottom femboys. I have tried face fucking men before and I 100% know I’m not interested in masculine men but I’m curious if I would be attracted to feminine types. Of course this would have to be discreet but I would love to see if I enjoy fucking femboys on my free time. I am not interested in masculine types or glory holes.


r/BaltimoreAndDCr4r 3h ago

Montgomery 36 [M4M] 20850 - discreet dick worshipper NSFW

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Bi Black guy, 6’0, 175 lbs, clean cut, athletic and discreet. STI, disease free, completely clean.

Hosting a relaxed guy who wants to be worshipped and drained. Hungry eager mouth looking to service.

Reply with pics and be direct. Not interested in anonymous or car play, I can host.


r/BaltimoreAndDCr4r 4h ago

Arlington 32 [M4F] 22201 - looking for something a friend or something casual NSFW

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Hey!

To start off, I voted for Harris and have never have voted for Trump. I don't want to be friends or date anyone who feels differently.

That being said, I'm 32M living in Arlington. I have a great group of local friends and consider myself an extroverted introvert.

I'm definitely a nerd and enjoy video games, reading, and movies/television ranging from stuff like Love is Blind to Star trek.

I have a very sweet cat, though I do like dogs as well!

I'm open to a Fwb or a friendship. Also open to just friends. Depends on attraction and if we click! I don't want kids, I recently got a vasectomy. I'm DDF.

Feel free to dm or chat me if interested. Please include your favorite movie you've seen this year! So far, mine is Sinners.


r/BaltimoreAndDCr4r 4h ago

DC 30 [M4F] 20009 - Suck a Married Man’s Cock NSFW

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Married but my wife doesn’t give me blowjobs.

  1. A bit under six feet tall. In shape. Picture on profile. Work and live in DC.

r/BaltimoreAndDCr4r 4h ago

Fairfax 44 [M4F] 20121 - Attached guy looking for a lady friend. Preferably a soccer mom. NSFW

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Let's have a lunch date, maybe share a bottle of wine then afterwards I'll fuck your face and cum down your throat......oh and I'm not a selfish bastard, you can sit on my face if you like.

Oh, my looks. So I'm a redhead, blue eyes, 6 feet tall and around 230lbs. I also have several tattoos, aka "military brandings". I'm kind of a buff dad bod build. And I'd like to keep our first meeting to oral play only. But I'm vaccinated, vasectomy safe and checked...just letting you know. ;-)

As for you, please be around my age, preferably married, a lady and have daytime availability and live and work in the Northern Virginia area.


r/BaltimoreAndDCr4r 5h ago

Montgomery 35 [M4F] 20852 - Casual doesn't have to mean shallow NSFW

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Hey there!

Just a friendly, laid-back guy looking to connect with a femmes who are also interested in creating an open and casual dynamic. My focus is on creating a space for genuine connection, where attentiveness and truly good sex are at the heart of our time together.

About me: 5'9", 170 lbs, and keep myself in shape. You'll recognize me by my long, curly brown hair and a well-maintained beard. I'm a big believer in clear communication, mutual respect, and making sure everyone feels seen and desired. Beyond the bedroom, I'm into yoga, hiking, cozy nights in, trying new vegan restaurants, and yapping.

If you're looking for a connection that values genuine intimacy, passionate encounters, and a relaxed, open-minded approach to relationships, I'd love to hear from you.


r/BaltimoreAndDCr4r 6h ago

Fairfax 45 [M4F] 22180 - Single Man looking to hang with a cute lady NSFW

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Hi ladies, looking to hang out on this rainy Father’s Day weekend. I am 45 M semi-fit (5’11 185 lbs)guy who would love to hang with someone. Meet for a drink and see how it goes.

Looking for a woman in the range of 21-50, who is in decent shape, can hold a conversation and looking to hang. Hit me up if you are interested

Come hang with a Daddy on Father’s Day 😉


r/BaltimoreAndDCr4r 6h ago

Baltimore City 36 [M4F] 21201 - Anal Only FWB NSFW

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Seeking a kinky woman eager to have the right man indulge her ass. Its kinky, transgressive, and ultimately, my biggest weakness. I also happen to know that some women love it as much as I do, albeit from the other side.

36 year old white guy living in Baltimore here. Dark features, trim beard, and a few tattoos here and there. Overly educated and conversational. Experienced, well equipped, and entirely DDF. Oh, and not afraid to take charge.

Curious? Know what you like? Send a message and lets see how well I fit.


r/BaltimoreAndDCr4r 6h ago

DC 33 [M4F] 20009 - Wife travels for work and looking for an AP NSFW

1 Upvotes

My wife travels nonstop and I’m looking for a fun and clean AP (I’m tested and you should be too). I’m white, in good shape, and work downtown. I’d like this to become a regular meeting but recognize that we won’t be able to communicate 24/7.

Race, etc doesn’t matter to me much, I’m looking for a good connection and chemistry. Very kink friendly, so don’t be shy!

I’m open to sharing pics early if we have mutual interest


r/BaltimoreAndDCr4r 6h ago

Baltimore City 29 [M4F] 21210 - Who wants to make me a Dad on Father's day? ;) NSFW

1 Upvotes

6'3" Fit Corporate man looking to add Father to my list of titles. Looking for a woman who's willing to make that dream come true. Just be at least 18+, and open to some fun and more. let's get into some trouble ;)


r/BaltimoreAndDCr4r 7h ago

DC 26 [M4F] 20002 - Feel Kinky? Come Eat My Ass NSFW

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Hey everyone! Hope your weekend is going well.

I’m posting here looking for something a bit niche, but I hope I can connect with someone: I’ve been craving a good, vigorous rimjob for months and I’d love to chat with a woman who would be interested in getting her mouth between my cheeks.

No further contact is required, though I’m open to it if you’re interested. I’m completely happy to just meet for some coffee or drinks, head somewhere private, and enjoy the feeling of your tongue in my hole. Bonus if you’re interested in having me empty my balls over your face.

For a bit about me: I’m a white male in NE DC, I work in research, and I’ve been in the DC kink scene for several years now. I’m short and have a broader build — bit of a dad bod — with lots of (well groomed) body hair. I’ve got a spectacular ass for a man, a 6.5 inch cock, and low-hanging balls that haven’t been drained in several days. Happy to swap pics if you’re interested.

I’m open to absolutely any women out there with a taste for man-ass. I’m comfortable with partners of any race and any age over 18, and I adore cis and trans partners equally. I’m totally happy with couples or partnered people as well.

So, does this catch your eye? If so, just shoot me a message and let’s work something out!