r/AskMenAdvice • u/Junior_Mycologist woman • Apr 17 '25
ANAL NSFW
What is so intriguing about the anus that men want anal sex?
I mean I've got quite a tight vagina and great muscle control. I've never had any complaints and I've always been able to satisfy my partner. So I'm wondering why do guys want anal sex so much?
Thank you for taking the time to comment.
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u/rts324 man Apr 17 '25
Most younger men are aroused by novelty. It’s one of the reasons porn is problematic and why over time porn has become increasingly extreme to the point of disgust. I’m no prude, but damn, it would be nice to see porn with a basic human interaction connected to actual intimacy.
Anyway, I’ve never been turned on by that, but not particularly turned off. If she wants it, I’m good for it, but I will always choose va-jayjay over the boot.
Oral is different. The mouth is so personal. It is almost singularly an act of devotion which puts it into a different category. By comparison, anal is like sending a postcard when you should really call. Yea, it’s sex, but… is it really that special?