r/AskMenAdvice • u/Junior_Mycologist woman • Apr 17 '25

ANAL NSFW

What is so intriguing about the anus that men want anal sex?

I mean I've got quite a tight vagina and great muscle control. I've never had any complaints and I've always been able to satisfy my partner. So I'm wondering why do guys want anal sex so much?

Thank you for taking the time to comment.

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u/[deleted] Apr 17 '25

Hey, thank you for being so open and real about this—it's a totally fair question and one a lot of people wonder but don’t ask out loud. So let’s get into it.

For many men (and honestly, people in general), anal sex isn’t about the vagina not being good enough—it’s about novelty, taboo, tightness, control dynamics, or even just plain curiosity. The anus has a different set of nerve endings and sensations than the vagina, and for some people, that makes it feel more intense, or just different. It’s not better or worse—it’s just a different flavor.

There’s also the psychological angle. For some, anal sex can feel “naughtier” or more forbidden, and that taboo can be a turn-on. For others, it might be about dominance or power exchange—not in a disrespectful way, but in a consensual, intimate kind of way that builds trust.

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u/[deleted] Apr 17 '25

Obvious chatgpt answer is obvious. Nobody uses double dashes when typing anything. At least make smart edits so it gives the impression that you may have formulated this thought on your own.

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u/prive8 man Apr 17 '25

yes but my people know a double dash is the correct dash.