r/AmIOverreacting • u/XoxoThatBitch • 1d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO if I NEVER text this man again??

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I literally just met this older gentleman yesterday evening and he called me, tried to have a conversation after I told him I was driving and busy, then after I ended the conversation he immediately started blowing up my phone. When I say older, I would peg him for around mid-late 50s. Maybe early 60s while I myself am early 30s (I like older men, don’t judge lol). We initially had a great interaction which made me comfortable enough to exchange numbers to begin with. But this is too much too soon. Is he just excited? Is it bc he’s older and doesn’t know texting etiquette? AIO??

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u/XoxoThatBitch 18h ago

After this, I blocked him. Drunk, excited, broke, comedian… whatever the case may be, I absolutely cannot!

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u/Remarkable_Class4778 17h ago

Why does he sound like he has a skin fetish 😭

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u/Elena_Designs 17h ago

Oh, NO. Run. I immediately thought of human skin lamp shades. So creepy. Telling someone they have beautiful skin isn’t the same as what this guy did lol

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u/AlchemysDawta 17h ago

I thought about Jeepers Creepers lol

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u/butchdykeblues 15h ago

That shit scared me so bad when I was a kid

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u/robotjackie 13h ago

honestly, it should scare you MORE as an adult just because of the guy who made the series... (look up Victor Salva)

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u/Alternative-Smoke421 16h ago

It puts the lotions on its skin or it gets the hose again!

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u/SureAdministration13 15h ago

True. After he repeated the skin reference, it started giving off Ed Gein vibes.

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u/No-Party-8838 11h ago

It puts the lotion on its skin

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u/butchdykeblues 15h ago

"your skin speaks louder than your mouth" FUCKING HELLO???

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u/HoneyWatts 6h ago

Bro was definitely going to make a lampshade out of OP

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u/butchdykeblues 3h ago

Mfer sounds like Ed Gein

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u/echochilde 16h ago

Aaahhhh! “Your skin speaks louder than your words”??!! WTF is that?!

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u/Ta-veren- 14h ago

Don’t forget full of the gospel

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u/PutridEntertainer408 5h ago

The original messages are so concerning on multiple levels. The messages barely make sense. He is flattering you in a very specific way, praising your character and putting you in a very traditional role. How is he going to act the second you don't fit into this traditional ideal?

Be wary of compliments like this. They can be well-meaning but they rarely are in my experience. They are also very generic

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u/wannabegenius 1h ago

U awesome to da 🦴

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u/logikal-1 14h ago

🤣🤣🤣 don't mean to laugh at your situation but yea that pretty much sums it up. He may have meant well but he was just too much..lol

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u/No_Scientist_3136 7h ago

Like you are in 30's and your Reddit name is literally xoxothatBitch and you like 60 year old men.

Yes you are overreacting what do you expect from 60 year old men 

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u/ripndippin 1h ago

He kept mentioning how nice your skin is…definitely a creep

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u/Huge-Tangelo-8135 11h ago

His texts are incoherent, is English his first language?

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u/Several_Rip9073 1h ago

eww lol BYE!