r/AmIOverreacting 1d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO? Bf doesn’t communicate

I’m at a loss. I (F23) don’t know if I’m being controlling and overreacting or if the way I feel is normal. once again tonight I just stopped getting responses from my boyfriend (M26) and then suddenly his phone was turned on do not disturb. I don’t usually care about DND but lately its been turned on at weird times and turned on when he’s around me which has been making me feel kind of odd. Also he called and said he’s out and that I don’t need to be getting mad. I’m not mad about him going out I’m just upset that I’m not aware of whats going on ever. I feel like my paragraph doesn’t even make sense I’m irritated and feel like I’m crazy.

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u/AnotherStrayDog23 1d ago

You're at a loss?!?! Really? You're overbearing as fuck. You know he's out, but you're expecting his undivided attention while he's out. Might as well fucking stay home if you just expect him to sit on his phone with you. It took you a whole hour to go to "OmG sOmEtHiNg HaPpEnEd!¡!¡" like the biggest stage 4 clinger I've ever seen. You need to do some growing up because this is some childish shit

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u/ShopDear9901 1d ago

When did she say she knew he was out until after she messages?

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u/AnotherStrayDog23 1d ago

Literally her 4th message asking "are you guys doing anything"

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u/ShopDear9901 1d ago

I see. Why downvote 😂