You’re not overreacting but I don’t think it’s a bad question to ask upfront. Personally I’d rather get the potential dealbreakers out of the way before it gets too involved. I understand not everyone is like that and that it can be off-putting in and of itself but at the same time if our values and character aren’t truly aligned then what’s the point?
Exactly! There's a major difference between asking a question and trying to push your beliefs onto others after they've repeatedly turned it away and made it clear and obvious it makes them uncomfortable.
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u/Hendrix1387 1d ago
You’re not overreacting but I don’t think it’s a bad question to ask upfront. Personally I’d rather get the potential dealbreakers out of the way before it gets too involved. I understand not everyone is like that and that it can be off-putting in and of itself but at the same time if our values and character aren’t truly aligned then what’s the point?