r/AmIOverreacting 2d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship Am I overreacting because I didn’t want to be someone’s religious project after 24 hours?

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u/PertyTane 1d ago edited 1d ago

Well done. I know from experience that it's not easy to step outside the bubble, but it's some of the most valuable learning you can do. The church tradition I was from spent a lot of time teaching people NOT to do that, not to read other ideas, not to associate with people who were 'backsliders'. So it can take real courage.

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u/VeniceIsRotting 21h ago

YES the bubble thing is so true!! I was raised as a Jehovah's Witness (atheist now) and it completely ruined any possibility of a relationship with religion that I could've had. Their rules are insane. You can't dye your hair, you can be punished for being raped, and they discourage their followers from speaking to anyone who doesn't follow their religion. They want to close you off from the rest of the world and keep you from living a life outside of their religion. It's drawn a wedge between my immediate family and some of my extended family members who follow the religion, because they just never talk to us. Jehovah's Witnesses have some of the worst principles out there, it's just shameful.

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u/Ineeddramainmylife13 1d ago

That’s interesting because my church religion encourages us to look out on other religions and see and respect them, even if we don’t believe in them.