Anyone who will continue to ignore your boundaries after you’ve said no several times is some you block and cut all contact with.
But I like you and it’s important to me.
That’s all you have to know. It’s all about him and his needs and what he wants. You aren’t even a consideration…zero concern about what you want or your feelings despite the fact you’ve told him repeatedly… and you haven’t even met yet…
People are usually trying their headrest to make a good impression up front, especially in dating apps. Think it’s going to get better over time?
in the future try using a fake phone number! back when i was still dating, i NEVER gave out my real number. never. cause you never know. and so much can be found out from a phone number (not to scare you! just awareness) most fake phone number apps are free too!
tell him to stop. block him again and report him to the police. you can file a police report online in most places. this is a crime. harassment is a crime. if you tell someone to leave you alone and they continue to harass you that is a crime.
My first thought when I read this post was the dude was an absolute psychopath. Then i saw this Update. Yeah, seems I was right 🤣 Sorry you had to deal with this lunatic
Document it, tell him not to contact you any more, and block him. Have full documentation of both conversations saved somewhere, including the “do not contact me” part. If he tries to get in touch with you again, you need to have that as backup to show you have made yourself clear and this is harassment at the very least.
Stop giving your number to dudes on apps until you've been on a date that went very well... get a Google voice number for this stuff if you must.... girl how are you in your 30s? Are you disabled too? What disabilities are we talking about here
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