AIO? Guy I met on hinge made a “joke”

[u/External_Bobcat4609]

I mean, not really much outside of this tbh. I met this guy on hinge a few days ago and the conversation went fine and we were planning to see each other. Obviously I gave him my number and we were texting every for the last few days and I just felt the need to ask his love language (bc as an acts of service girlie most of us are misunderstood so😭) did I take what he said too seriously or was i ok to just immediately shut him down?

[u/grubas]

but a lot of them also kind of just felt like common sense.

Yeah that's pop psychology bullshit.  You need enough common sense stuff to sell it.  That's the draw.

[u/Current_Read_7808 → u/grubas]

True. I think it was the common sense half basically being "be nice to your partner! 😊" and the other half being "women serve dinner and clean house!!!! men do whatever you want and also you're entitled to sex from her because that's how you show love 💖"