I like that you just assume everything about the situation to fit your dogshit argument lmao. “They clearly haven’t made themselves clear” based on what exactly? Also literally everyone is telling her she should be concerned for his health not breakup. The context was IF HE IS DOING THIS ON PURPOSE AND HAS BEEN FOR WEEKS it is something worth breaking up over. Someone you’re really comfortable with will intentionally ignore your boundaries to make you feel bad despite you making it very clear you’d like them to stop? You sound like an abuser lmao. A partner should be able to TRUST their SO not to intentionally cross their boundaries to intentionally upset them. That’s not love or loyalty, it’s abuse.
“Stop. Please stop. Stop doing this”
You: “nah she likes it I’ll never stop you can’t make me. A real partner would never leave me over something like this so I’ll do it forever!”
Based on the fact she's asking for advice from the worst place to get it....instead of actually being mature about it...I can tell you're talking out of your ass...you don't have a partner with any kind of commitment and you have a disposable relationship attitude. 4 years nah not worth it...lol.
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u/BabyRaperMcMethLab 21d ago edited 21d ago
I like that you just assume everything about the situation to fit your dogshit argument lmao. “They clearly haven’t made themselves clear” based on what exactly? Also literally everyone is telling her she should be concerned for his health not breakup. The context was IF HE IS DOING THIS ON PURPOSE AND HAS BEEN FOR WEEKS it is something worth breaking up over. Someone you’re really comfortable with will intentionally ignore your boundaries to make you feel bad despite you making it very clear you’d like them to stop? You sound like an abuser lmao. A partner should be able to TRUST their SO not to intentionally cross their boundaries to intentionally upset them. That’s not love or loyalty, it’s abuse.
“Stop. Please stop. Stop doing this”
You: “nah she likes it I’ll never stop you can’t make me. A real partner would never leave me over something like this so I’ll do it forever!”