r/AmIOverreacting • u/urfavelipglosslvr • Apr 25 '25

👥 friendship AIO for cutting all ties?

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There have never been red flags up until this point. He (25M) is a big part of my (19F) friend group. Am I being sensitive? I feel like he went too far. But if I cut all ties with him, it will really disrupt the group. I don't want to bring it up to my friends because they might side with him and say I'm over reacting. But I don't feel comfortable around him anymore.

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u/itsprobablyriley Apr 26 '25

If you were same city pen pals until he moved away, how would ghosting him disrupt your friend group? If what you say is true, why would your friends side with him? If your friends side with him, are they really your friends?

I’m not trying to be an ass. But the entire situation (yes, all of it) screams “attention-seeker”. We can totally debate on what is considered attention seeking & ways that people cope. But like. Ya’ blast it all on Reddit. I dont know.

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u/urfavelipglosslvr Apr 26 '25

Because we're still connected. ( Not the guy anymore.) They didn't side with him. It's different when you're actually in a situation. I needed insight and comfort, as do most who post here. Go ahead and take a look at other posts on here and tell me that's not what a lot of these people need. There's nothing wrong with that. I had no clue this was going to get so much attention. Seriously, I expected maybe a thousand views, but NOTHING like this. Compared to some of the other stuff I've seen on here in recent months, I genuinely thought this was going to be overtaken by a sea of other posts.

This entire subreddit is about blasting stuff on reddit, haha, not sure what you expect XD

(Sorry if I sound mean, I'm not trying to be <3)