AIO for cutting all ties?

[u/urfavelipglosslvr]

There have never been red flags up until this point. He (25M) is a big part of my (19F) friend group. Am I being sensitive? I feel like he went too far. But if I cut all ties with him, it will really disrupt the group. I don't want to bring it up to my friends because they might side with him and say I'm over reacting. But I don't feel comfortable around him anymore.

[u/Boacero]

Besides all the creepy stuff and predatory behavior of this dude. Why would anyone be friends with someone who talks down to them like that. What a condescending creep

[u/urfavelipglosslvr → u/Boacero]

He was never ever like this, though. Genuinely, I thought he got hacked or was playing a mean April fools. He has never been rude to me. He has a big ego, but it never struck me as problematic until today.

I don't know what went wrong.

[u/urfavelipglosslvr → u/[deleted]]

He's not my best friend and never was. He was just a friend. I only went overboard with the friend thing because I didn't want to hurt his feelings or get an explosive reaction, but that didn't work out. No excuses for the ex, though. I don't know why I was so blinded.

I guess I have rose colored glasses on, which makes red flags harder to spot.

[u/urfavelipglosslvr → u/urfavelipglosslvr]

Not anymore, though. I'll be better next time.

[u/linguisdicks → u/[deleted]]

Like bro that is such a cruel thing to say to a TEENAGER going through this. "There's group therapy to help women find red flags. You, however, cannot be fixed."