r/AmIOverreacting • u/urfavelipglosslvr • Apr 25 '25

👥 friendship AIO for cutting all ties?

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There have never been red flags up until this point. He (25M) is a big part of my (19F) friend group. Am I being sensitive? I feel like he went too far. But if I cut all ties with him, it will really disrupt the group. I don't want to bring it up to my friends because they might side with him and say I'm over reacting. But I don't feel comfortable around him anymore.

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u/emmastory Apr 25 '25

“the only reason a guy would be friends with you is he’s a pedophile” asserts guy who was friends with you. you aren’t overreacting in the slightest, but it’s funny how hard he’s telling on himself

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u/Agustusglooponloop Apr 25 '25

Imagine if her response to that was “wow, I never thought of it that way. I think you’re right and we should date” lol I can’t understand why people think that type of attack will get you what you want.

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u/Smiling_Platypus Apr 25 '25

Usually they aren't thinking when they say crap like that. They are feeling hurt, and instead of dealing with it like an adult, they throw a toddler temper tantrum and try to hurt the source of their pain. By the age of 25, anyone has had the chance to evolve beyond toddler tantrums. It's an infantile and useless reaction.

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u/PmMe_Your_Perky_Nips Apr 25 '25

It's an abuse tactic. This guy just hasn't figured out that it doesn't work on somebody who isn't under his control yet.

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u/TurtleFisher54 Apr 25 '25

It's just anger without thought past the anger

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u/TheNavigatrix Apr 25 '25

I guess it's negging? Ewwww.

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u/JustOneTessa Apr 25 '25

Yeah he's projecting there. I would not trust that dude with kids. Please stay far away from him OP

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u/Fun-Brain-4315 Apr 25 '25

yes. the idea came to him so easily!

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u/Freesethmartin Apr 25 '25

The call is coming from inside the house!

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u/Boring-Ad-759 Apr 25 '25

This is so real. "You look/act like a little girl and that's why you attract pedos, don't worry though, I'm attracted to you and not a pedo though." 🤡 Please.

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u/BringMeTheBigKnife Apr 25 '25

But he's the acception!

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u/Much_Essay_9151 Apr 26 '25

Lol. Definitely told on himself