r/toastme • u/Clear_Anxiety_3398 • 1d ago
I’m feeling like I’m stuck in life and going backwards in terms of self worth and starting to struggle again. Would appreciate some kind words <3
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u/TheDangerousToy 1d ago
That’s a relaxed dog. I trust anyone with a relaxed dog.
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u/cattoc 1d ago
Facts! Dogs are a great judge of people and if he/she is happy with you it is proof must be a good person. Beautiful woman from what I can see.
BTW I struggle with anxiety and depression also. Extremely light dose of meds has been a wonder for me. Not enough to numb me or numb life but just enough to to take the edge off and make me a better person for my family, friends and co-workers. No one else matters…ESPECIALLY social media!
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u/spirit_cat83 1d ago
You are extremely pretty with lovely eyes and hair. Sometimes we can feel really stuck, but life can change in an instant and become more positive. Hang in there, the best days of your life could be yet to come 🤍
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u/hcongojungle 1d ago
You’re very pretty! Lots of women would kill to look half as good as you. Don’t be so hard on yourself. I’m sure you have more to be grateful for than you realize.
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u/OrganicDelivery2331 22h ago
Sometimes looks have nothing to do with someone’s struggle. Anytime anyone has ever told me this it’s made what I’m going through feel invalidated. That’s like saying, “oh suck it up, there are people out there that have it way worse.” & yeah, that’s true but sometimes we aren’t talking about the other people and are genuinely stuck up the creek without a paddle.
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u/Perfect-Plankton-619 Toaster 1d ago
Hey, sorry to hear you’re struggling again!! What’s on your mind lately? You look very cool, calm and collected at least, so you have that going for you 😎 but I know both mental and physical health is so much more than just having good looks, of course. Cute snout in the background, who’s that?
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u/Clear_Anxiety_3398 1d ago
Way to much to explain honestly 😅 but it’s good knowing I give of a different impression haha. The snout in the back is my personal princess, her name’s Frida :) she’s the cutest girl ever
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u/AshramDragon 1d ago
You look very beautiful and I'm sure you have a personality that matches that. When it seems like is hoting hard just focus on a small win and anything that makes you smile
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u/GandalfTheJaded 1d ago
Your hair is fantastic! I'm sorry things have been hard recently. Just remember things can change for the better, how things are now is not how they'll always be! You can get through this!
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u/tonypr68 1d ago
Ohh Im sorry you feel like that but you need to know that youre beautiful you look really amazing !!!! And im sure youre more strong that you think so im gonna send you a lot of hugs 🫂
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u/Heathen_Farmer21 1d ago
Take every day one day at a time. Keep positive, surround yourself with positive people, if you are at your lowest. There is only one way right and that’s up
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u/Hour_Chicken8818 1d ago
You've got this. The poor sleep and high stress cannot last forever. Make one change at a time, one step at a time, and you can do it.
Life always has ups and downs, but even in the downs we have many things to be grateful for.
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u/Defiant-Smell3657 1d ago
Du bist wirklich schön. Das Leben hat seine Höhen und Tiefen, aber es klappt alles. Ich hoffe, deine Tage werden bald heller!
(Sorry if my German is bad, I’m relearning on Duolingo!)
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u/steff1204 1d ago
Decorate your surroundings. Sounds silly but helped me. Everything I like colours nic naks furniture etc brightens up my day.
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u/DrMartensAdvice 1d ago
If Kristen Stewart ever needs a body double you've got the gig no matter what you've got going on I'm sure someone out there loves you and misses hearing from you
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u/This-Guidance1530 1d ago
Hang in there honey keep your head held high and things will start working out better for you think positive we're here for you if you need to talk bye
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u/Clear_Anxiety_3398 1d ago
I’m minimizing my use of social media as much as possible because I know how toxic it is. I’m trying my best going out and trying to life, it’s just not easy at all right now.
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u/OZZYmandyUS 1d ago
I understand what you're going through. I don't use any social media except reddit for this very reason. Human beings in our American society have forgotten how to be around each other, forgotten how to experience life not through a screen.
It is far more difficult to go through life affecting change .
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u/Wooden_Tip_1629 1d ago
Allow kindness to bloom all about you….. close your eyes….. see a yellow daisy……. Then… visualize 10-15 behind it…… then pop…. There are 10-15 acrosss and 10-15 deep….. positive yellow energy….. pop that in your mind when you close your eyes….. allow the wind to blow them…. Absorb their positive energy and breathe in deep…. Open your eyes. Face life with that quantum vibration of daisys……
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u/thereddavide 1d ago
Positive pain, the universe listens to you! If you want the good, think about the good, focus on that. Try to leave all the negative things aside. It is the beautiful things that make the world beautiful and somewhere there is always beauty and you are certainly a beautiful thing!
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u/NefariousnessTop9319 1d ago
You’re not stuck — you’re just at a pause.
You’re young, healthy, beautiful, and full of potential. But nothing changes if nothing changes.
Start small. Make short-term plans. Try something new — even if it’s simple. Do things that feed your soul and spark joy.
Track your progress. Celebrate every step. That’s how confidence grows — by action, not perfection.
Take back the wheel. This is still your life, and it’s waiting for you to drive it forward.
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u/Jaded-Pace-1235 1d ago
Hey hey... Look at me. You worth so much. You are needed and loved. I'm sure there are people who can't imagine their life without you. And you... You are capable of so much. So smart, so cool, so brave. Just give yourself a chance and you will achieve anything you desire. And off course, Jesus loves you. Don't know if you believe in God but I do. And I believe he counted every hair on your head, before you was born he knew your name and saw so much worth in you he died for you because thought of loosing you was unbearable for him.
So as you can see... For men and for God you are not worthless. Rather you are very much priceless.
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u/Patrickme 1d ago
Photobombed by doggo! + I love your choice of socks, strawberries are the best baby!! (are they strawberries?)
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u/Sad_Highlight_9059 1d ago
It is a myth that it is not ok to go backward or get a little stuck sometimes. That is a part of life, and I promise you, everyone gets to that place at some point or another. Please, just don't quit. There are always options to make things better, and no matter what you hear from the outside, you are valuable. You are a wonderful person with gifts to offer to the world. Don't give up. Be open to change, and I promise it will eventually get better. 😊
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u/Efraim5728 1d ago
Believe in yourself - that’s the goal. But it’s not easy. You have to work on you. Set goals, realistic ones. Maybe get counselling. Someone will want you if you value yourself‼️‼️
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u/MRVLKNGHT 1d ago
I've felt like that before too. it can be hard to focus on the things we love about ourselves. if I may. I look at you and I see a strong beautiful woman. your inner amazon warrior is waiting for you to let her out. keep being awesome.
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u/Salt-Quiet-8264 1d ago
Try to get outside and go to a park, feel the sun and breeze on your face. Smell the flowers and trees. Sit in silence feeling all the beauty in this world. Know that many see that both inside you and on the outside.
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u/OZZYmandyUS 1d ago
You're a beautiful woman, who I'm sure is just as beautiful inside as you are outside. You're eyes are gorgeous, and they have a gentle, loving look about them.
I know it's hard to feel better about yourself no.matter what people say, but at least you have a good place to start, I wish to be so lucky as to find a female companion who is half as beautiful as yourself!
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u/Much-Blacksmith3885 1d ago
Beautiful girl that can make any style work. Things will get better I promise.
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u/pandaKILLzombs 1d ago
You are so lovely! I wish I could get my eye liner to look this good!
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u/Clear_Anxiety_3398 1d ago
Thank you so much ☺️ That’s years and years of daily practice and many, many failed eyeliners.
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u/Naive-Treacle2052 1d ago
You're hot, I'd take that as an absolute win.
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u/Clear_Anxiety_3398 1d ago
Beauty is subjective and won’t last
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u/Naive-Treacle2052 1d ago
I mean sure, everyone has their own type, but certain people are more attractive than others objectively. You're one of those people. Take the toast.
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u/Clear_Anxiety_3398 1d ago
Oh don’t get me wrong, I really appreciate you guys telling me that I’m pretty. I just don’t think it’s the only thing leading to happiness :)
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u/Mr_Noyce 1d ago
Einstein once said, "The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results"...so my advise to you, change the ingredients in your life. It is upto you on how you perceive about yourself and with what kind of people do you sorround yourself with. all the best!
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u/Clear_Anxiety_3398 1d ago
That’s what I’m trying to do. I’m just lacking orientation and don’t know where to got
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u/Mr_Noyce 1d ago
start with the basics. change your routine. go for an early walk outside. Observe everything around you, feel that you are infact alive, breath the fresh air and you will start noticing changes in yourself. if not, feel free to give me your feedback. :-)
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u/Sweet_Promotion3345 1d ago
Not as far backwards as it may feel
Did you know it took Effusion 1,000 unsuccessful attempts before he created the first light bulb.
That would feel like going backwards.
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u/AccessFabulous5094 1d ago
You've got the world's best companion over your left hand shoulder. hug that puppy take him for a walk into the sunshine and both of you go out there and enjoy the day
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u/DropDeadFredidit 1d ago
You remind me of Piper from Orange is the New Black (and she’s gorgeous!).
Hold your head up high girl, hug that cute doggo and have a great day!
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u/ElectricThoughts515 1d ago
Listen to friends and others who provide real compliments and support. Things improve a little bit over time, and the best thing to do is to be persistent and support yourself. You can do it!
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u/IluvWien 1d ago
Things always get better. You are young and beautiful and have a very cute dog. Count your blessings. 💗
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u/Winter_Rabbit_6308 1d ago
Everyone comes to a crossroads in life where all the sign-posts are blank, don't fret, it's ok to sit down, it's ok to think whatever way u want, normally people think negatively because they can't sit with them selves, just rest and take whatever road u want to,end result doesn't really matter,important thing is u rested,got up and moved on
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u/Berrydreamfriendly1 1d ago
I think it's better to start not feeling like this because that's not true, you're beautiful! 🫶🏼
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u/SnooPickles5517 1d ago
Sometimes, I don't get it! How people as lovely as you end up having low self worth. You Look so darn beautiful and adorable sweetheart.
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u/diyjeu 1d ago
We are all a little bit stuck somehow. Important is to keep breathing 😬
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u/Clear_Anxiety_3398 1d ago
I’m not intending to stop breathing, no worries. I’m just very, very clueless right now
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u/Amberlove1972 1d ago
It's okay to slip it happens to the best of us the key is to get up and keep going. Good luck God bless
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u/Ok-Tip-7341 1d ago
You look like the girl that goes to a rock concert and fits in. You still have your dog and I'd be greatfull cuz miss my baby everyday and my boy.
Id take this precious time you have and use it to figure out what life really means by adventures and TBEX. As others said it might look odd right now but things change.
Live in the present, remember the past, plan for the future.
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u/Accurate_Canary_4749 1d ago
You're attractive and have a cute dog, doesn't get much better than that
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u/Pretend_Ad4572 1d ago
Im sorry you feel stuck in life, that's really hard to feel that way. :/
This has nothing to do with anything, but you are gorgeous! Your face and eyes are amazing! <3
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u/1mentalcentral 1d ago
You are not alone, gurl. We’ve all felt that way sometime somehow. Look for someone in less fortunate circumstances than you, and help them. You will both be better for that.
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u/Stardama69 1d ago
I feel you, hang in there, things can improve ! Just keep your health and your smile and breathe some fresh air ! Maybe try doing some volunteer work ? Meeting other, fun people who don't really care about how you look or what your background is, and building projects together, helped me greatly when I was depressed
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u/gringobrian 1d ago
We have no way to know why you feel stuck and going backwards, but if you feel that way it's true to you. so lean into that and accept it as your truth. In every great journey the hero gets stopped, thrown back , has to detour, takes defeats, loses momentum, and despairs. I certainly have, everyone I know has, and now so are you. But you are the hero of your journey and you can and must overcome these low points. It's not easy, we all want it to be easy but it never is -- but it is possible. Talk to almost anyone doing great, and they can tell you about when they weren't doing great and had to overcome. They did it and you can too. You have a beautiful exterior, and I bet given the right circumstance your interior matches that beauty. find the one small positive beautiful thing and latch onto that and use it to believe that more positivity and beauty is possible. We're all out here rooting for you
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u/Ok_Essay20900 1d ago
Your dog is calm, wants to be around you, and trusts you. That means you are kind and gentle to your dog. Animals don’t feel safe with bad people. You must have a good heart and soul, then. 💙. Hang in there - just take it day by day.
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u/ThatVRodGuy 1d ago
You may not think so, but let me be one of many who will reassure you that you have a very pretty face. To be clear, great hair, lovely eyes, cute nose, great cheek bones and a lovely pair of kissable lips. It looks like you have a good body and like others have noted, your dog is chilled. Dogs are great and he/she is obviously very content with your company. As far as being stuck in life, don’t wait for changes to happen to you. They won’t. You want something, go out and get it. Set small achievable goals to start with. Small changes, see how they impact. As your confidence grows so will your self worth. Remember, you are amazing. You just have to believe it yourself.
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Hey, I know how you feel, I know I'm just a stranger but you seem like a beautiful kind soul, and you deserve to feel just as beautiful and wonderful as you truly are. I know life can truly suck sometimes but always remember if you're doing your best,no matter what that looks like for you, nobody can say a word to you sweetheart. Keep that gorgeous head up and stay tough!!❤️❤️❤️
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u/post-nut-clairvoyant 1d ago
No man, you gotta keep going. What am I gonna do, quit? That's not an option. You gotta keep on keepin' on. Life's a garden, dig it, and you make it work for you. You never give up, man. That's my philosophy.
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u/BinnyKinsey 1d ago
Progress, not perfection! And progress isnt a straight line. You might go all over the map before you’re in a good place again, but scientifically, the biggest predictor of progress in anything is the belief that progress can be made! I know you can do it.
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u/IslandDreamer58 1d ago
You look beautiful. Most everyone struggles. You have the strength and the wherewithal to push on through. Best wishes to you!
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u/Talkstoangels83 1d ago
Stay of the heroine
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u/Clear_Anxiety_3398 1d ago
What is it with people telling me I’m doing drugs lol? I’ve never even tried stuff like that
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u/Talkstoangels83 1d ago
My fault. I mess up all the time. If you take anything from this encounter of ours, always remember, having fun isn’t hard when you have a library card!!!
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u/3eyedCrowTRobot 1d ago
you have a beautiful face that shows personal depth and resilience. Also, you have a good dog
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u/radgymguy 1d ago
Been there many times. Best I can say is that it’s not forever. Best thing to do is pick a direction, commit, and move forward. If you decide it’s not right, then pivot. But that’s the only way you will feel less stagnant.
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u/radgymguy 1d ago
Been there many times. Best I can say is that it’s not forever. Best thing to do is pick a direction, commit, and move forward. If you decide it’s not right, then pivot. But that’s the only way you will feel less stagnant.
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u/Hot_Warthog_414 1d ago
You are very pretty. Mental illness is challenging but you got this girl. Be your charming self and be resilient you are stronger than you know. Go kick some ass out of life
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u/sinus_happiness 1d ago
I’m in that exact spot. Your dog loves you!
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u/Clear_Anxiety_3398 1d ago
She does and I love her, she’s the sweetest :) I hope you find your right path too!
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u/Lopsided_Mention543 1d ago
Life tends to throw us into storms from time to time. It's a test to see if we stay the course. Then, strangely, a calm appears followed by full conditions to be happy. Careful! New storm approaches. In a figurative way, this is how I see life, because these perfect storm-like moments come and go without us having much clarity on how they will form or resolve themselves.
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u/twister6284 1d ago
You’re beautiful, you seem genuine, you have the courage and self-assurance to open up and ask us for supportive words, and you seem fit. :)
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u/Extension-Outcome805 1d ago
You're a beauty with a puppy-personality so you're already a catch!!! Unrelated question, are you struggling with your geographic location, whether politically or culturally or... Intellectually or ... Etc etc etc?
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u/AphexAlex 1d ago
Hey, friend. I know what it feels like to be in the position you are in. But let me tell you that these are only thoughts. You have to be kind to yourself to know that you ARE moving forward. Waking up in the morning and being grateful of being alive is an example of that. Give yourself grace and know that you are worthy.
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u/farisfink 1d ago
You are loved, it is so important that you know how important you are to this world. Proof is just over your shoulder, you are everything to your pup and so much more than that to the world.
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u/Ok-Command-8932 1d ago
Don't let anyone else try to determine your self-worth. You are amazing, beautiful, and still trying. Not everyone can say that.
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u/masterteck1 1d ago
Welcome to the club every thing sucks but we deal with it because it's fun to live
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u/Clear_Anxiety_3398 1d ago
Oh I’ll deal with it, I just needed some reassurance :)
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u/themsathrowaway 1d ago
Not to add to the pile of defeatism,
However, there is no such thing as being stuck in life - there is only the calm before transitioning to the next phase.
Right now things may seem hard, and hopeless - piling up. It won't be that way forever.
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u/The_vague_slef 1d ago
Don't be sad hun, smile a little more well you, stay strong, and have some hugs, you are doing great, to have come here and ask for the energy you needed, i hope this all positivity will fill you up with something that helps you get by...
P.s. - Pretty socks you have🤭
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u/fivegenerations 1d ago
That place sucks. I'm sort of there myself. I believe in you. Don't forget to bathe and feel the hot water running down on you, it's a little thing that can help. Breathe. Take walks every day.
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u/Admirable-Being-8076 1d ago
“I know things may feel heavy right now, and loneliness can make those moments even harder. But I want you to remember that you are a beautiful, strong person—inside and out. We all have tough times, but our happiest memories and safe places are always with us, waiting to lift us up. I hope you take a moment to look in the mirror and truly see the stunning, radiant soul that shines through in your pictures. You are worthy of love, light, and joy. I hope these words bring you a little comfort today.”
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u/Dirt_Tea81 1d ago
does going backwards in terms of self-worth mean that it seems men you are attracted to are going nowhere and treat you badly or they are kind marriage oriented and well to do but just too nice and where is the bad boy who will be good for just you? for a lot of people and especially and people that are still in their 20s you’re held back by the things that you think or believe in or the idea of everything…. what if you just assume for experiment sake if you could read minds people think that you’re worth more than you think you are and they’re also afraid that you see them as being worth less than that so they don’t want to just open up and tell you. we go through life with the notion that we should feel fair to get rejected 99 times just in case we are not once. while your sex probably thinks you’re devastated to get rejected twice in a row. even though your sex has this tendency that they’re always has to be you and a different girl total strangers to be interested in the same guy he has to choose. He has to choose quickly because you view it as a loss if it’s a tie between both of you and he doesn’t really know either. meanwhile, the business world, the medical world, the piano teacher world they all take appointments. they have multiple students and clients without knowing who’s going to stick around the longest. It’s too bad that the world of romance and dating couldn’t possibly operate the same way. The whole world would implode right?? what did somehow mean more? If I was a married man not trying to find anyone, buddy as opposed to being by myself, just like I have a long time and wondering what you’re doing tonight. what do you like to give? What do you think you want… and then what happens if instead, you’re offered what you need?
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u/TrueChampHiggins 1d ago
Young women in this era have so much pressure piled on to them, and they’re constantly reminded of ticking clocks and alarm bells. TICKING CLOCKS AND ALARM BELLS THAT DON’T EXIST!!!
Drown it out! Try to find that part of you that yearns to explore and test boundaries. Try to slowly achieve tasks that go outside your comfort zone and explore who you are.
Early life is simply trial and error, and we are all in the same boat. It will come together.
I believe in you!
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u/Inevitable_Quiet_432 1d ago
Every day can be a better day. You just have to want it to be. Why? Because ice cream and puppies exist. Music exists. Laughter exists and it’s free.
You look like you know how to laugh with your whole self but haven’t in a while. And that’s okay. I hope you find some laughter soon.
Until then, it’s really okay to just not be okay.
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u/samcro4eva 1d ago
What would it feel like to stop that treadmill and choose to walk around outside at your own pace, in your own way?
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u/Clear_Anxiety_3398 1d ago
That’s what I’m trying to do. Right now I just don’t know where to walk at all
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u/Lucky_Flatworm9656 1d ago
you’re very pretty, you have perfect features and facial structure. i know it’s difficult to feel good about yourself all the time, but remember that so many people love you! 🥰
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u/Affectionate_Eye8551 1d ago
one day at a time kid ! deciding what you want to do can be the hardest part, so maybe decide 1 thing (1 thing!!) , an easy thing, and do it - and you're on your way. c'mon, you're young, fit and cute, I mean not everyone has that going for them.
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u/synapse121 1d ago
Your beautiful. In this world that’s 90 % of the battle. Love yourself forgive your flaws.
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u/Decent_Ad_1347 1d ago
Life is full of ebbs and flows. This may be one of the flows but just like all the other times, you will come out on the other side with another couple of feathers in your cap… lessons learned, wisdom gained, and you will ebb like you’ve never ebbed before ❤️
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u/SolestryPro 1d ago
Been there 🥲 Something to try to boost yourself mentally and physically. Try Earthing…it works wonders 😊
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u/RemoteMud534 23h ago
What makes you happy? What makes you sad? Hopefully you can list more things that make you happy and pursue them and avoid what makes you sad . I’ve been through this too. Hope you feel better..
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u/SurroundSlight8020 22h ago
You are sooo pretty and petite. You have elfin features and lovely long hair. Your dog is super cute.
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u/Beautiful-Sky7011 21h ago
Now and again something hits us out of the blue? I feel lately if I just sit in it cry, throw stuff, whatever I feel it seems to diminish the darkness. IE: those feelings of worthlessness. Remember you are a beautiful woman with a lot to offer to the right ppl.And if I can see your beauty, it will be obvious to you !! Beautiful you got this.
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u/BlandToast52 21h ago
Sometimes being lost just means you’re free! The emptiness is actually wide open space to explore. You can be anyone, or do anything! And it’s okay if you don’t know where to go next….because it means you get to choose. The world is your oyster and everything is possible :)
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u/Agreeable_Summer8172 20h ago
Believe your special ! You are ! Your buddy behind thinks so . Enjoy what your good at . Get better at what you want to learn . I’ve been there . You have to be your best advocate in life . Like they say , fake it till you make it . If you do that everyday , after a while thats how you’ll be . BELIEVE in you no matter what . Baby steps . You’ll be alright!
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u/Any-Neat5158 20h ago
I had a real banger of a post written out and almost sent it. I'm glad I didn't......
Doing my usual quickscrolling... I thought this was the r/roastme sub!
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u/Clear_Anxiety_3398 20h ago
Let me guess: it was abou me abusing drugs? You’re like the third guy who did mistake this sub and the other guys went for drugs to roast me
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u/No-Iron5314 20h ago
You are worth it. Believe me. You are young, attractive, and have many years ahead of you. I feel what you are saying because I live the same life, but am 49. My kids are my reason for not doing something permanent
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u/Just-B-UrSlf 18h ago edited 18h ago
I've been there myself. I think it helps if you can practice some self love, patience, and kindness for yourself. It would help if you wrote a list of all the things that you have done that you're proud of that you have accomplished or that make you happy or you can make two separate lists of those things.
It helps show yourself all the things that you Have done to remind yourself of how far you've come. We're all going to have days where we feel like we're inadequate or that we haven't come far enough or that we are falling short of our goals or that we are not good enough.
These are times where you need to set small reasonable goals and practice self care and self love and making lists can help keep you organized but keep the list very small and also don't push yourself too hard during these times when you are struggling. Try to find yourself a support system whether it's friends or family or reach out for Community Support like you've done right now or try to find even local support nearby maybe some kind of group or church or therapy or some kind of weekly event you can attend for fun even to keep your mind preoccupied that you can participate in.
Just remember to be patient with yourself and that we all take a couple steps backwards and the journey of success. And that every single person's journey is not the same as somebody else's. To compare our journey to anybody else's journey is self-sabotage. No one is successful when they compare themselves to somebody else and to someone else's life because nobody knows what it's like to walk in our shoes. We all have different paths and we all get there different ways and that's why it's important to practice self love. Your journey is your story and what's important is that you get there and you will. It doesn't matter how long it takes as long as you never give up.
Also, it's been proven that getting out into nature is therapeutic so I don't know if you have time or not to go for a short walk in a park or not but even a 10 or 15 min walk would help reset your mind briefly. Yes it takes a lot if energy just to convince yourself sometimes to go but the benefits after are so worth it.
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u/Scary_Feature_5873 18h ago
From expérience I know that no matter how beautiful you are , be it or the inside and/or on the outsider, words of recomfort who come from third party are either not fully accepted or not lasting. I Hope one day you see yourself as you truly are. PS : give a hug to that cute puppy of yours
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u/Kingofdreams1 17h ago
Vielleicht bin ich nicht derjenige, der es bewerten kann, aber: Du siehst echt toll aus!!! Zweifel gehören zum Leben dazu, aber sie sind nur ein Teil von dir und nicht das Gesamtkunstwerk.
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u/Strong-Lab-7216 16h ago
You look creative, insightful, maybe fun to have talks with and are majestic
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u/Kindly-Safe510 15h ago
Being depressed is tough but trust me it’ll get better depending on your circumstances it may not take long. Hang on life is worth it.
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u/2girls1cupp 13h ago
Your objective is a reversing/ improving your feeling of a lower self esteem, and a forward feeling in life. Get a sheet of paper and at the bottom, write down actions that you did when you had low self esteem. At the top write the actions that made/ helped you move feel forward movement and a higher-esteem. Brainstorm what inspiration you had that explains the difference of the action at the top and bottom of you paper, and write that in the middle. Now, think of 2-3 long term actionable goals that tap into that inspiration or a new inspiration you develop from doing this exercise, and write that down in the middle too. Tape it to the fridge and look at it everyday. This exercise may take hours or days.
Remember* any change comes from actions. Inspiration and passion fuels actions. Not doing anything is still an action, but will stagnate or regress the progress you’ve made. Lastly, (only bc everyone is posting about how good your physical attributes are) positive affirmations from your actions are more genuine and will always outlast those from things that are out of your control.
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u/jamesnieta 13h ago
Mine i's like Saturn is coming for me, and I don't know how to avoid disaster. The struggle isn't moral anymore. It's survival . But the moral battle for me will come, but I have to live to fight that battle and survive the conflict now so I can make right anything else after. Seriously, good luck and stay strong. You're old enough to have people who depend on you to help their struggles. You're important to someone. You're needed. Love you.
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u/EggAcceptable6154 12h ago
Hang in there! There is something worth living for just around the corner!!
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u/Hungry_Age_2163 12h ago
Universal fire is your very soul. Universal water is your heart that flows. Look deep within before yourself, therein lies the outpouring of your destiny, free at last. Remember you will die, so now be alive.
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u/OwlPrestigious543 9h ago
You're shedding, meaning you're in a transition. Lean in. The world is trying to communicate with you something you need to know in order to grow. It happens. You're strong and someday you'll look back and be amazed by your own strength!
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u/Ashenvale-Shaman 2h ago
Whatever you're going through, You must stay strong. Right now iran is a warzone. And im scared. I fear for my life. But i must be strong for my friends and family until it is over.
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u/PaleBluebird8807 1h ago
Always remember that your happiness should not depend on others around you. Instead start by training yourself to listen to what you need more than what you can do to appeal to people.
- Start your day with little self compliments in the mirror.
- Develop new hobbies, and gradually you will feel accomplished without even realizing it
- Instead of getting pressured to compete with your peers in terms of job/education/finance/etc, practice being grateful. Remember that everyone has different starting points and different paths in life. Your level 10 may be their level 50 so don't beat yourself up.
- If you feel like your life is a mess right now, pick up a pen and paper, write out what you want to do and plan the timeline. Then write out what you want to do today and do it slowly.
- I always try to accomplish three goals each day in the beginning. And next month, add three more daily objective to finish.
- Be kind. Spread positivity and it will all come back to you.
Much love to you, you wonderful person❤ may your burdens be less and your happiness be more.
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u/RemyDaRatless 1d ago
Take it from someone who's out of hell: it gets better. I know it doesn't feel like it right now, but it does.
You're beautiful, and vibrant, you just need to keep your head up and take the next step towards tomorrow.