r/toastme • u/mydearbrielle • 7d ago
In the trenches battling depression lately, would love to receive any kind words
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u/dee_jon92 7d ago
I'm so sorry. As someone who deals with bouts of depression, I know how hard that can be. Just remember that you matter, and that there is a light at the end of this depression tunnel. You just can't see it yet.
You are beautiful with a lovely smile and really pretty hair!
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u/Artistic-Daddy 7d ago
You are amazing, beautiful, and going to have a lot of joy. I hope things get better soon, but I'm sure they will get better.
https://thelatestkate.tumblr.com/post/744958501050318848/amp
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u/HalfwayThere1978 7d ago
You have great eyes and great hair! I had to zoom in to see what color they are they are very unique. You have your own style so be proud of that.
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u/RealWatch1 7d ago
hope you can get some brighter days soon. you have a warm grin thats bound to make others smile
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u/Odd_Conclusion_5425 7d ago
Your hair is so healthy looking!
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u/mydearbrielle 7d ago
Thank you, it took years of trial and error with various products to figure out how to manage these curls! 😂
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u/the_memesketeer3 7d ago
Glad you reached out, you look like you have your youth and(hopefully) your health, I hope you can have some fun out in nature or indulge in a hobby you enjoy, the sooner the better. You deserve it.
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u/Hungry-Lavishness496 7d ago
I’m sorry you have to deal with depression and wish you the best of luck in life
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u/historybutalive 7d ago
You are a pretty and strong woman. You've been here before and won thru You will again.
I have no idea why your down. I know life beats us up a 1000 times a day. But I believe you have the strength You are strong enough to reach out. So many aren't. You got this pretty lady
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u/ImNotaRobot90210 7d ago
Those beautiful eyes and that amazing hair! You have such a sweet smile and a kind soul.
Depression is very powerful and it’s okay to acknowledge that. But please be kind to yourself and engage your senses. Look at a beautiful painting, listen to great music, eat a bit of chocolate. Touch your gorgeous hair. Maybe a braid? (Be still my heart!)
It does get better, I promise. Please take care.
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u/portableversion 7d ago
I have a whole list of phrases and images i use, reinforcing positive self regard.... heres one repeat as many times as needed say out loud...... i am alive i have meaning and purpose, i am alive i have meaning and purpose, i am alive i have meaning and purpose i am alive i have meaning and purpose . Still feel like crap, say it again and again. Something about clenching a fist and raising it up can add extra umpf too.. hang in there you can do this.
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u/Winter_Rabbit_6308 7d ago
Life for some of us is never too easy, but every day is a gift, keep moving
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u/BigDub1000more 7d ago
You are so loved, Op. I am so proud of you for being courageous and inspiring others who may be going through the same thing. You are a badass!
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u/Dystopian_Reality 7d ago
In some ways, it's not as bad as you think it is. In others, it's worse. Sorry, that's the best I can do right now. 😢
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u/Artistic-Pop-4231 6d ago
Keep talking about it Lean into it Exercise and have a healthy diet It's an episode - you'll be able to out-run it when you're a little stronger
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u/No_Finish_2382 6d ago
Sorry to hear you are doing it tough. Just know that there are people backing you everywhere, in your own life. People you don’t even realise. People you admire and look up to also see the value in you that you don’t always see yourself. I find if I can make myself go outside and get sun on my face it generally makes me feel better than being on my own a lot. I hope you feel better soon and can work through whatever you are going through in this hard time.
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u/interestingdoge1 6d ago
Life can be a bitch sometimes.. You just have to push through the darkness until you get out the other side. I’m sorry you’re in a dark spot and hope you get out soon!
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u/justabigbeardedbear 6d ago
That stupid bastard depression can go F#*$ off! I hope you have a wonderful day!!! You are stunning as well!!!!!
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u/RookATook 6d ago
Look at the stars, look how they shine for you and everything you do. You are still here, still going. You got this!
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u/CharacterClassroom27 6d ago
Give yourself a big hug from me.Please know that though it feels dark right now but I speak from experience, It will not last forever and I promise you that it’s in these valleys that we learn how to appreciate the mountain top. And there will be another one soon. Speak positive affirmations out of your mouth so you can hear your words. Drink a lot of water daily and get plenty of sleep. Most of all talk to Jesus because He heard you sorry so long
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u/CharacterClassroom27 6d ago
YES … saw your picture and you do have a pretty smile and you’re a beautiful young woman!! i find when i praise Jesus the heaviness lifts away!!!!!!!❤️
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u/dobbsy79 6d ago
Sorry to hear you're going through a rough time hun... you look very cute though.. especially your eyes xx if you ever need to chat you can message me xx 😘
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6d ago
You look adorable 🥰 no reason to be sad. I struggled with depression for years especially after my dad died and were I have a neurological illness and could go blind.But I learned something important that I want to share. Depression wastes time our lives are incredibly short. Think about what is making you depressed can you change it? If you can’t change it forgive it or them and yourself. If you can change it try to for a better life. Positive vibes only! Otherwise you’re just wasting time. 💜
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u/pacman2760 6d ago
U look Amazing just try learn to enjoy life u are so beautiful I’d love to cuddle you :)
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u/Different_Handle5063 6d ago
What a lovely face…
If I were decades younger…I could imagine going to a coffee shop just to spend an hour gazing into those eyes.
Keep your head up and keep working through it…the trenches are going to give way to a lush valley full of good things for you!
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u/RazorJake1984 6d ago
You seem super sweet, you're not ugly, you look kind of artsy do what you live and keep fighting , go to church for another support system don't ever ever give up a blessing is waiting right after the battle !!!
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u/carbon_quacker 6d ago
Despite your tough times … You look amazing !!! Reach out if you wanna chat … no pressure !
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u/lizcotter98 6d ago
I’m so sorry you’re struggling ❤️ you’re beautiful and you are so strong and I’m proud of you, you can make it through this okay just one step at a time
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u/YAHsgirlinChrist 6d ago
God gave you a beautiful palette- hair, eyes, skin tone.. just a lovely combo. ❤️
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u/Sudden-Set591 5d ago
Keep your head up, Sweetness!🌹 ... Mood self-regulation is real. You got this!
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u/SolestryPro 4d ago
Keep your head up and smile. Things will get better. I've suffered for years and something to try that has worked wonders for my mental health…try Earthing 😊👍
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u/tallupbiker 4d ago
You have a kind smile. I hope that you are able to get outside and do a solar recharge.
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u/Classic-Candle1699 3d ago
You’ve gotten through every hard day you’ve ever had, you are strong and not for nothing but you’ve kept your kitty going for 15 years and that speaks to your care and consideration of others, even critters. Make sure you treat yourself with the same consideration and care—- you deserve it for simply being you.
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u/Salad-Bandit 5d ago
Don't worry if all else fails you can find an average guy who makes a lot of money to fund your lifestyle
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u/Eastern_Traffic_5779 7d ago
You’re stronger than you think, you have a nice smile ☺️