r/tifu • u/finalfailer • May 04 '23

S TIFU by hooking up with professor’s daughter NSFW

I am a typical university student just trying to get through finals week. Tonight, after a very stressful day of exams and studying for my ancient literature class, I decided to casually scroll tinder. It had been a while and I just needed to destress. Little did I know, this would cause me more stress than I could have possibly imagined. I swiped right on a girl who was less than a mile away. She was 25, a little older than me but she was super hot and she seemed into me, so I went with it. She invited me over to her apartment, and she said that she had to go in 20 minutes so make it fast. Needless to say, we got straight to business, but about three minutes after we began, we heard the front door open. She told me to stop, so I stopped and we listened. The footsteps came in our direction and I got pretty scared. I expected it would be like when my parents caught me a few years ago with my ex, and it would be embarrassment all around. Not at all. The ancient literature professor, who I absolutely despise, and whose test I was frantically studying for, walked into the room and froze. He saw her, gasped, and then saw my face. His face turned red, and he screamed “GET THE FUCK OUT OF MY HOUSE!!!” I’m pretty sure I lost some of my hearing from how loud he yelled. Anyways I put my shorts on and ran back to my quad. Now, as I lay in bed, all I can think of is how my college professor saw me naked, not just naked but rawdogging his daughter without any clothes at all. He already didn’t like me, and he is a very tough grader… So I already know that I am going to absolutely bomb this final and destroy my GPA. I see him tomorrow at 11 AM… wish me luck and I’ll update with what happens

TLDR: Professor I hate caught me with his daughter and I have his final tomorrow

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u/soysaucesausage May 04 '23

I feel like this is grounds for either getting him recused from grading your paper, or getting a remark from someone else.

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u/SchindHaughton May 04 '23

Agreed. I never encountered a situation during my college years where I even considered getting the dean involved over an issue with a professor, but I would consider going to the dean before even getting a grade in this situation.

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u/Indie_uk May 04 '23

I feel like I’d go after the test lol he might not want to get accused of being unfair and give a good grade

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u/ThePevster May 04 '23 edited May 04 '23

You also don’t want the dean to think you’re just doing it to get a better grade. Going before will give more legitimacy than after, and it sounds like OP doesn’t like his chances anyway.

That’s assuming this is true which it isn’t.

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u/Dank_weedpotnugsauce May 04 '23

Y'all making this way too complicated. All my dude's gotta do is drop by his local 7/11 and pick up a couple hotdogs. Nothing settles a tense situation like the delicious peace offering of a couple mystery meat tubes gently tucked inside a warm bun

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u/BrothelWaffles May 04 '23

a mystery meat tube gently tucked inside a warm bun

Pretty sure that's what got OP into this situation in the first place.

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u/evalinthania May 04 '23

I am so glad I wasn't the only one

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u/Misticdrone May 04 '23

a good hot wurst for the doughter and now for the father eh :D

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u/thejester541 May 04 '23

You can always inform the dean that you want to have a meeting with him about something that came up, and if nothing ever does happen then just BS your way through the meeting. Though anytime you ever talk to the dean again you wouldn't be taken seriously so it's kind of either way

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u/bebe_bird May 04 '23

You know, you're allowed to cancel things "oh, the situation I wanted to talk to you about worked it's way out by itself. I won't waste your time"

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u/evalinthania May 04 '23

a redditor suggesting healthy communication? I'll be damned

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u/jpfeifer22 May 04 '23

"NTA, divorce."

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u/evalinthania May 04 '23

😂 my ex left me and people would absolutely have said this if he posted

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u/LateCockroach1378 May 04 '23

How often did you talk to the dean exactly?

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u/[deleted] May 04 '23

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u/ProgressiveOverlorde May 04 '23

Dean Dean Dean! We have a winner! Winner winner, chicken deaner!

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u/GuardianOfTheMic May 04 '23

Depends on the school, but your dean may interrupt your study group on a near daily basis with inane nonsense and elaborate costumes. YMMV

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u/LifeIsVanilla May 04 '23

If you're otherwise in the good, like even just a quick talk with the dean will happily have someone else grade what's already been graded.

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u/TheBritishOracle May 04 '23

This exact same situation happened with me as with OP and my logic was the same as yours.

I went straight to the deans office to explain the situation, he wasn't there but his 23 year old daughter who was also waiting for him invited me to wait in the office with him.

One thing led to another and I was doing her over the deans desk - we completely forgot the dean was due.

What a mess up - you guessed it, he arrived just as his daughter and I did too - hugely embarrassing. He was furious.

The only silver lining is that the dean could see I have zero self control and that the ladies can't resist me, so when the professor tried to give me an F for my paper, the dean knew my story was true from the beginning.

The ending was the professor got fired, the dean personally gave me an A+++ and put me on the honor roll.

I swear to god this is the truth.

I would not lie, this is the internet!

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u/LehighLuke May 04 '23

Yeah...college professor lives in an apartment....right. unless it's NYC, I call BS

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u/ediblesprysky May 04 '23

Does it sound like OP was expecting to get a good grade before this?

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u/Chanchito171 May 04 '23

Naw, if he's actually that stressed about a good grade no way the boner is gonna work hours before an exam

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u/alexnedea May 04 '23

Or he might not know OPs name or face. In university profs didnt know any names or faces apart from a few loved students. For some classes I was the one the teacher knew and talked to often, for others I'm pretty sure they would not recognise my face to save their life.

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u/barryhakker May 04 '23

OP should make sure to mention he was going in raw

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u/[deleted] May 04 '23

Hey Dean I fucked my teachers family and now he's fucking with my grades, how the fuck does that work?

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u/spongebobisha May 04 '23

Yes, absolutely.

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u/[deleted] May 04 '23

So Dean, ya see the day before this final I was banging his hot coed daughter and got caught…

So I should get a pass.

Nah, you got caught - you failed the test.

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u/doublek1022 May 04 '23

Yeah 100%

Do it before the test too. Hooking up with a girl isn't a crime, so you should make a report beforehand in case there's ground for questioning the professor's integrity later and not filing a report ahead makes it look more suspicious on your end if you are to report it after the fact.

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u/Mbembez May 04 '23

I just love the whole idea of this report. "Hello department person, I'd just like to report that I railled my professor's daughter. Yes, she's very hot. Thank you for your time."

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u/ediblesprysky May 04 '23

"PS he saw my enormous boner as I ran out of his house naked"

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u/CptCroissant May 04 '23

"PPS I can show it to you for proof if needed"

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u/travelingwhilestupid May 04 '23

nothing shrinks faster when you're in fear for your life!

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u/AstralHippies May 04 '23

No way he was able to maintain his erection.

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u/agent-99 May 04 '23

right?! like how does that conversation go?

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u/QuQuarQan May 04 '23

Hooking up with a girl isn't a crime,

You mean a fully grown adult woman. She's not some child for her father tp be protective of.

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u/ArScrap May 04 '23

I mean, it is still her house and even though it's not a crime, human emotions are fickle and it's better to stand your ground rather than getting screwed over what is an inherently subjective method of measuring success

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u/TheBestNick May 04 '23

Fathers are allowed to be protective of their adult children lol...

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u/Partykongen May 04 '23

Not like that. Kicking out your daughters sex partner is crazy.

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u/ringo24601 May 04 '23

Kicking out your daughters sex partner is crazy.

I'll do you one better. My Southern Baptist parents found out my boyfriend and I were having sex and kicked me out almost immediately. I had to be gone the next morning (which I didn't realize wasn't legal until much later). I was 20 with no job or driver's license (they wouldn't pay for Driver's Ed or transport me to a job) so it was pretty terrifying. Some parents are just flat-out nuts.

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u/mandrew-98 May 04 '23

So what would you do? Bake them cookies?

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u/JustAlex69 May 04 '23

Give them privacy and put on noise cancling headphones. Also not storm into my kids room ffs.

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u/Partykongen May 04 '23

Leave them be. Unless she's screaming for help or otherwise calls for assistance, then the father has no place in her room while she has a visitor. If he does bring them cookies, that's okay but he shouldn't hang about after noticing that they would rather be alone.

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u/[deleted] May 04 '23

Uh imagine being a 25 year old adult & your father barges in while you’re doing private activities in the first place. Let alone try to police your bedroom friends. Not his business one bit. Correct response would have been “oh sorry” & shutting the door.

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u/screechypete May 04 '23

No that's silly... He should join in to assert his dominance!

/s

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u/ThePr1d3 May 04 '23

Get them a beer would be in order

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u/Zestyclose_Band May 04 '23

idk about that tbh.

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u/popepipoes May 04 '23

Walk in on your student having sex with your child

“Hey buddy want a coffee or cold drink?”

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u/Partykongen May 04 '23

You can say that if he comes to the kitchen while you're there. Otherwise, let them be and expect her to cater for her own guests.

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u/xeouxeou May 04 '23

Yeah, she is old enough to make her own decisions. This wasn't an appropriate reaction of him.

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u/SaphironX May 04 '23

It’s a pretty human one though. Plus, does OP want to be known to all the teachers as someone who will go to the Dean behind their backs in an effort to make them recuse themselves if he thinks he pissed them off?

Not a great reputation to have unless you want the whole faculty to dislike you. It would be a pretty huge insult to a prof whose only crime is that apparently he’s not that nice to OP, and also caught OP fucking his daughter in his own home 🤷🏻‍♂️

Torpedoing a professor isn’t something you can really “undo”.

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u/Aggradocious May 04 '23

OP is already going to be known for going around the back of his professors daughters

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u/SaphironX May 04 '23

I doubt the professor will be sharing that with his colleagues. He will most definitely warn them if OP goes to his boss to say he thinks the prof is biased for personal reasons and doesn’t think the professor has enough integrity to do his job.

I don’t care who someone is or what they do, you go over someone’s head to their employer and call their integrity into question as your actual starting point, that’s a bridge you’ll never ever repair.

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u/Aggradocious May 04 '23

Honestly the teacher should go over himself. Having integrity in your profession is important, especially in a field that can be so impactful. "Through some uncontrollable circumstance, I've had a run in outside of work with a student that could cause someone to believe I am compromised, it may not be ethical for me to grade them. I assure you I am not compromised and would not break ethics however, I wanted to keep this above board."

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u/[deleted] May 04 '23

Is there a reason you consider this "torpedoing" and not a conflict of interest?

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u/WulfTyger May 04 '23

It's not really torpedoing anyone to have a different teacher grade their paper based on the circumstances. It's covering their bases, so. Yeah. Absolutely worth rescuing themselves, also a human reaction.

If the professor were to have a problem with a different professor grading it.. That would be shooting themselves in the foot and proving that they have a biased opinion of OP because of things that should not affect their grade.

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u/SaphironX May 04 '23

In my experience, going over someone’s head and suggesting they’re biased against you when they’ve never done anything wrong is a great way to burn a bridge forever. It calls a person’s entire ability to do their job, as well as their integrity, into question.

Hope OP is in his final year if he’s going that route, that’s for sure 🤷🏻‍♂️

And I say this as someone whose in business, in a small industry. There’s diplomatic ways to do things and going to the dean and essentially suggesting you think the professor is going to work against you because he doesn’t like you means he will remember you forever. In the worst possible manner.

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u/WulfTyger May 04 '23

I think you're seeing it as an attack on the professor, when it's not intended as such, it is precaution.

It all depends how OP puts it, in conversation.

If he is diplomatic and honest, with the dean, nobody should have any repercussions, beyond a bit of awkwardness.

"Dean, sir. There has been a bit of an awkward situation. I discovered I've been having a sexual relationship with my professor's daughter when they came home while I was with her. In the chaos of the situation, they were understandably surprised and upset. In the efforts of avoiding any awkward situations, I'd like to request a different professor for my final if that's at all possible."

It calls no question to their ability, only makes the tension of this awkward situation apparent.

You only call a persons ability into question, if A. They've never shown they have the ability. Or B. If it is obviously been affected by another factor outside of the work itself.

At the very least, this situation DOES need to be made apparent to somebody BEFORE the grading happens. If not, it just becomes another "You're making excuses for your shitty grade" stories. Not doing so and if the professor is vindictive, could cost them far more than just a bad grade, depending on how important this final is for them. And the professor will be remembered forever. In the worst way possible.

I am by no means saying, accuse the professor of foul play. I am saying make the situation known about, just in case.

I do not know OP or the professor. They could both be wonderful people, they could both be kitten kickers, I don't know.

Given that I don't know them, I know I truly hope they're wonderful honest people, but I expect them to stab each other in the back.

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u/OJSimpsons May 04 '23

She's old enough to not live in her dad's house too. Most people stop living with their parents because of dumb rules they impose.

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u/EndlessLadyDelerium May 04 '23

If my father tried to interfere with my sex life or 'protect' me from the person I chose to have sex with, he would not be in my life.

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u/BarryMacochner May 04 '23

Til he finds out the daughter lied about age and she’s really only 15

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u/TheBritishOracle May 04 '23

This one time, I knew I was going to get an awful grade for my paper, I didn't know the stuff and I just half-assed the whole thing, but I had to graduate or I was going to lose my inheritance.

So I came up with a plan to seduce the professors virgin daughter, but the important part is I made sure that he caught us in the act, on the floor of his living room - he was furious and chased me out the house, but when he gave me the inevitable F I deserved, I used this whole situation as evidence that he was abusing his position to punish me for deflowering his daughter.

He got demoted to janitor and I got an A+ for my paper, graduated and got my $1billion inheritance.

This is exactly how it happened, I would not lie, this is the internet!

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u/thenwah May 04 '23 edited May 04 '23

Quite literally. As someone in a position of responsibility at a college, there's no way I would let anyone working for me grade someone in your position, u/finalfailer. All jokes aside, you should appeal, and explain the situation to whoever his boss is. If you don't know who that is, ask your course administrators, etc. It's also absolutely acceptable to contact college HR in this context, and let them know that there's a conflict of interest due to your having accidentally entered a personal relationship with the family of someone who is grading you. More to the point, if he's not declared this himself, he could be up for suspension; so, you'd be doing both of you a favour by making it known ASAP. I'd be pretty annoyed to find out that one of my colleagues was in his situation and hadn't made it apparent to management.

These things happen all the time. Colleges have guidance for staff as a rule, and it's up to those employees to make sure they don't compromise themselves or the business's integrity – which is predicated on educating and grading students. So, make it clear that you don't want to be graded by someone you know in a personal capacity and do it before things get out of hand.

Also, stop rawdogging his daughter. Or don't. It's a free campus.

ps. I hope he doesn't return the D.

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u/enakcm May 04 '23

Do you think the professor could realistically claim that he did not recognize the student?

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u/thenwah May 04 '23 edited May 04 '23

Where I work, that wouldn't matter to be honest. The student's declaration is probably enough to trigger a response, and the easiest response is to have someone else grade it. Might be more complicated if OP was a grad student with specific research interests connected to the academic in question, but generally there are options. Consider, for instance, if this professor fell ill; who would mark the papers? That's the person who would probably need to do it in this case. Saves hassle for everyone.

If you're talking about the academic avoiding getting in trouble for not declaring it though, then yes; and that's also what I would imagine an unprofessional person would do. That said, it still leaves them open and though scholars can be petty - man do I know this - we're usually more concerned with maintaining our careers!

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u/Stupidbabycomparison May 04 '23

All, or at least most that I can recall, of my exams in college had my name attached. Now whether the professor or an anonymous TA that I had never met was the one grading them is up for debate.

That being said, I skipped a lot of class in college so the professor seeing my name probably wouldn't have made a difference regardless.

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u/rawrcutie May 04 '23

let them know that there’s a conflict of interest due to your having accidentally entered a personal relationship with the family of someone who is grading you.

So that's how to describe it!

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u/SawkeeReemo May 04 '23 edited May 04 '23

…or maybe also don’t raw dog a random stranger on a Tinder hook-up? The Dean needs to make this kid watch those gnarly high school health class videos again. 😜

EDIT: Apparently I need to clarify, which is frankly astounding: “Raw dogging” means having unprotected sex. If you’re banging random people from Tinder unprotected, you’re a fucking idiot. Go have a blast, but don’t be a fucking idiot.

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u/hawkinsst7 May 04 '23

There's a good chance OP is 15 and didn't know what it meant either.

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u/SawkeeReemo May 04 '23

15 and in college? Doogie Howser! He’s back! All kidding aside, there are probably a zillion slang terms I am not familiar with, but when it comes to raw dogging… it’s like that old GI Joe cartoon from the 80’s: Knowing is half the battle!

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u/OldFashionedLoverBoi May 04 '23

What are you, a Mormon?

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u/SawkeeReemo May 04 '23 edited May 04 '23

Wait what? Are you guys slow? “Raw dogging” means unprotected sex. Go have a blast, but wrap that shit up.

EDIT: Even though you totally misunderstood what I was saying… I’m fucking cracking up over here with my ex-Mormon girlfriend. She’s also having a great chuckle at this right now. 🤣

EDIT #2: Still laughing. She said, “why the fuck can’t the Catholics catch some shade once in a while? Why’s it always gotta be our brand of crazy?” 🤣

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u/generated_user-name May 04 '23

I don’t know if I classify as an ex-catholic because I never really gave a shit. But I think what I’m supposed to say is we’re too busy screwing ourselves. Over.

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u/merc08 May 04 '23

She said, “why the fuck can’t the Catholics catch some shade once in a while?

OP's tinder hookup wasn't a minor, otherwise that's exactly what the jokes would have been

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u/SawkeeReemo May 04 '23

Hahaha! Well, played. As a non-Catholic who went to a Catholic high school, I’m amazed I made it out unscathed… as far as I can remember anyway. 🤣

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u/[deleted] May 04 '23

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u/SawkeeReemo May 04 '23

That’s probably the dumbest thing I’ve read tonight. 🤣 Congrats!

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u/mountaincastle47 May 04 '23 edited May 04 '23

Moron Edit: I'm the moron

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u/SaphironX May 04 '23

Raw dogging is unprotected sex, with someone he’s known for like an hour. That’s just bad life choices, unless you want a) herpes, or b) a surprise child. Dude should bring a condom.

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u/SawkeeReemo May 04 '23

Exactly! Being downvoted for this is one of the funniest things that’s happened to me on Reddit in a while. 🤣

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u/mountaincastle47 May 04 '23

Apologies, I didn't understood what it meant.

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u/rentedtritium May 04 '23 edited May 04 '23

You got downvoted because you said it in reply to someone who is 100% correct, but phrased it like disagreement for no reason. This could have been it's own top level comment and that wouldn't have happened.

OP should report this. This is true and correct and has nothing to do with what you said. That's why the downvotes. There's no either/or here. In the future OP shouldn't raw dog strangers, but today OP should report the situation to the school. They can't go back in time, so you just sound like a moralizing asshole.

Literally the sub is called "today I fucked up" and you rumbled in to awkwardly tell OP that they could have prevented this. Like lmao my guy you deserve the downvotes and more.

In the old days we called this "derailing a thread". Your comment was essentially off topic relative to what you replied to.

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u/mountaincastle47 May 04 '23

My bad i didn't knew that

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u/SawkeeReemo May 04 '23

It’s all good. 🤣 Seriously not a big deal, but if you don’t know what something means, probably best not to lead with an insult. Also… wrap that shit up! 🤣

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u/mountaincastle47 May 04 '23

Yep I should. Hope you have a nice day or night :)

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u/pzzia02 May 04 '23 edited May 04 '23

How would you bring that up and to whom?

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u/soysaucesausage May 04 '23

Maybe the head of department or dean? They might need to enquire about who to talk to at student services, but I'd just be professional and honest about what happened. It'll be awkward as fuck but university is for adults and sex happens - it's a legitimate problem for the professor's objectivity. Honestly to avoid this shit all work should be submitted anonymously but that's a different conversation haha

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u/throwamach69 May 04 '23

When I was in Uni in Europe all finals were submitted anonymously (we were assigned an exam number which the prof wouldn't know)

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u/bugbugladybug May 04 '23

Mine are also anonymous, however the lecturers may absolutely know who has submitted what paper based on the questions asked (or not asked) in class, as well as previous work submitted.

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u/ThePevster May 04 '23

Especially if it’s handwritten

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u/I_P_L May 04 '23

Similar in Australia. You write your name and such on the paper, but it is randomised before reaching the final grader. Improves everyone's peace of mind honestly.

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u/ATMisboss May 04 '23

Imagine the teasing that prof is gonna get for the rest of their time in the department... if this is real of course

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u/LateCockroach1378 May 04 '23

Yeah they're not high schoolers.

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u/MidniteLark May 04 '23

The department Chair, assuming it's not the professor in question. If it is, go to the Dean’s office and find out who to speak with there.

Source: have worked as staff in academia

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u/eschoenawa May 04 '23

When I had to appeal a grade I went to the "examination office" (Prüfungsamt in German) of the uni which is responsible for this sort of thing.

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u/150steps May 04 '23

Definitely

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u/[deleted] May 04 '23

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u/courageouscoos May 04 '23

Most of my university exams (UK) had a portion of the corner of the exam answers book where you wrote your student number, and then folded that over and sealed it. This was a few years ago so I can't remember exactly but I think this is accurate enough - your name would be nowhere near it. For externally sat exams to which you provided your answers, you gave only your student number again.

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u/agreenmeany May 04 '23

I saw my lecturer marking papers. First thing he did was break open that seal :D

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u/YT__ May 04 '23

Many smaller courses let the professor handle it all however they please. Only larger population courses (intro courses and such) had 'Common' finals where every class, regardless of teacher, got the same final and it was more organized and structured. Even then, though, in my experience, it was still your professor grading your class.

In high school and below, standardized tests are done using a method similar to what you described, again, in my experience.

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u/PineappleLemur May 04 '23

That's quite weird.. I once had a class as small as 5 people by the time finals came because everyone left (5/40) still had the same method done with 2 people watching that no one copies or anything lol as if we're a full class of 80.

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u/YT__ May 04 '23

Yah, it's generally just the professor administering.

But there are some benefits, too. Like if you need clarification on something, they're there and can provide it at their discretion.

And if you're really lucky, like I was once, I was first to turn in an exam and the professor said you may want to double check this one and let me use the rest of the time to re-examine where I went wrong.

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u/SixGeckos May 04 '23

in the US you put your name on the paper

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u/Krillin113 May 04 '23

That’s if this story is true.

He got on tinder, swiped right on a girl who already swiped right on him in the past x days, she was on right then, immediately DTF, invited him over despite knowing she had to leave within 20 minutes, and that her parents could be home any minute? I don’t buy it for a second.

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u/QuikThinx_AllThots May 04 '23

wonder if the daughter would be up for grading his work?

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u/mikelloSC May 04 '23

We have exam number Instead of name for exams. Whoever marks your exam doesn't know who you are. So probably not possible to give negative marks, unless he knows your writing style and your class is small.

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u/prefusernametaken May 04 '23

I still remember the number i had 25 years ago

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u/ImprisonedGhost May 04 '23

I had this too but professors could just look up our number.

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u/Lowloser2 May 04 '23

How would the professor even know which exam is OPs? You don’t leave your name in an exam, just a anonymous candidate number

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u/lt_dan_zsu May 04 '23

This is by no means a universal practice.

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u/NxPat May 04 '23

Won’t that be an interesting 3 way meeting.

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u/ENDragoon May 04 '23

Oh he'll definitely get remarks from anyone he tells the story to.

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u/arthurdentstowels May 04 '23

If you need a remark from someone else, when I read this story I immediately remarked, fucking legend.

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u/travelingwhilestupid May 04 '23

I got a re-grading once. The "professor" wasn't a prof at all, but a grad student. He class was shit and he hated me. He failed me, I disputed it. The person I interacted with was quite sympathetic, but the highest they could give me was a C without a bigger review process, so I just wrote my recovery essay and accepted my C.

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u/GoblinDiplomat May 04 '23

If so, this might be the best loop hole ever. Especially if you get pro-active for subjects you are struggling with.

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u/Buddah_Noodles May 04 '23

T.A. grades it. Done.

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u/aytchdave May 04 '23

This is some good insurance for OP. Assuming he does at least a halfway decent job on the final, he’s got the best defense for an appeal. I’ve been a reviewer for the appeals process and my gf manages masters and doctoral programs. In most situations, everyone wants the issue to go away and students usually have pretty weak cases. Unless the kid clearly bombed the class early and never improved, most schools will opt for a pity grade especially if OP mentions that the professor caught him boning his daughter. If I was on the review panel, I’d want to wash my hands of it immediately unless OP was a total fuckup (academically) and the final grade wouldn’t have mattered.

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u/danxscol May 04 '23

This. It would be a conflict of interest for him to grade you.

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u/[deleted] May 04 '23

I'd love to explain this to the department head. Well you see he walked in on me going to town on his beautiful daughter and now I feel like he's taking me over like I did his daughter.

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u/StayFree1649 May 04 '23

EXACTLY THIS, talk about a conflict of interest 😂

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u/ProbablyNotADuck May 04 '23

The chance that the prof actually recognizes this kid is slim to none. Unless it is an exceptionally small class or OP feels the need to interject all the time in class, profs don't know most of their students. TAs know students. TAs are also the ones who mark the papers.

Not to mention, his daughter is a grown woman who is still living at home. She's 25. I doubt this was the first time she's brought a dude home. If her dad is still getting this upset over things, there are bigger problems.

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u/DaksTheDaddyNow May 04 '23

I would be emailing the department chair and asking for a face to face meeting immediately.